Nick689 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Hey everybody I need some advice, I've been going out with this girl for 3 years now and we've hit a bump in the road. I love her a lot and I want to marry/kids/travel with her some day but she has some problems on her end. We've broken up once because she says she wants to have a one night stand before she can fully commit just so she doesn't get 20 years down the track once we are married and make that mistake. I totally understand how she's feeling because we've spent alot of hours talking about it. We also had a problem where we spent a fair bit of time together so we really didn't get to miss each other that much. We just spent a week apart and when we saw each other it was really really good. Should I move on or just let her do this to get it out of the way? I'm a bit confused. I really care for her and she makes me really happy, she just needs to see that the grass isn't really greener. Thanks for your help.
atlg8r Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 How old are you and she? If someone wants to sleep with someone else, I would suggest moving on. Experience is not a good reason to screw around, and in my opinion, if she loved you back, she wouldn't even want to do that.
Phantom888 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 This is absolutely CRAZY!!! A girl who loves you would NOT want to experience a one-night-stand. Leave her.... your time is over.
Mr.Mango Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Definitely not what you should say to your boyfriend. I'd probably broken it off right there and then honestly. If she needs another man to satisfy her so she can love you, stuff whack.
Author Nick689 Posted June 28, 2013 Author Posted June 28, 2013 I'm 21 and she's 20. It's not the experience or the satisfying she needs its more of a mental thing. She's never done it and just wants to know what it's like.
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