daddy87 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Been doing 1 LC with my ex but im still finding it difficult, its just everytime i drop or she pick my daughter and i got to see her, why isit so hard? Just wish i didnt have to see her.
Hopeinme Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Its just one week! It cannot be easy at this point. It will get worse before it gets better. You have to go through this period and it will be okie slowly, but surely. Regarding your ex, you have to see her for the kids. Try minimal contact though. I hope you are okie soon x 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Yes, it will get worse first! Sorry, but it is reality. Can you arrange a pick up/drop off with a mutual friend or family member to avoid contact?? 2
Author daddy87 Posted June 28, 2013 Author Posted June 28, 2013 yeah it is difficult at the moment, but i do find it so much easier with LC and not asking how they are or what they doing is also getting better! What i find it funny is sometimes my ex will still try to do things and contact me like the other day she took a picture of my daughter and send it to me then she rang me if i received it and i said yeah and then she tried to turn into a normal conversation like what she been buying when she went shopping?! I just kinda cut it of and said to her just let me know when u drop our daughter off to me and she said will be soon because she need to pack her things as she was staying out the next day but i never asked what she was gonna do the next day?! Also i didnt wanna know either! also i have mentioned about finding someone to pick my daughter or drop her off and this is the conversation. Me - im gonna try to find someone to drop her off and pick her up. ex - i dont see the problem with me or you to do that, its not causing hassle. me -im still finding it difficult when im in contact with you. ex - That's just unnecessary though really isn't it? Why be awkward and make it even difficult than it needs to be? i dont know how, we barely talk as it it.... I left it as that so whats do you guys think?
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 Me - im gonna try to find someone to drop her off and pick her up. ex - i dont see the problem with me or you to do that, its not causing hassle. me -im still finding it difficult when im in contact with you. ex - That's just unnecessary though really isn't it? Why be awkward and make it even difficult than it needs to be? i dont know how, we barely talk as it it.... I left it as that so whats do you guys think? I think this is the right course of action. And you explained your reasoning. If she is still making a big deal about it, than that is f'd up and she is not considering your needs during this difficult time at all. Has nothing to do with the kids. It's all about her and her keeping control of the situation. I would insist on your request for a third party pick up/drop off…
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