GoBomb36 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Ok, guys, I'm having a really big issue. I'll keep this short, and do know that any advice will be appreciated. I've dated a girl for three months, fell really hard for her, too. She is going through a divorce, so times have been tough at moments, but I still care for her. While this was going on, I met another girl at the gym that started working out with me, and we have many things in common. As I said, I'll keep it short. I started interviewing for jobs that are about an hour or 2 away, and my girlfriend is insecure about me moving away and wouldn't want to do long distance. I love her, I do, but I have to say I've had some feelings grow for this other girl. She may have the most amazing body I've ever seen, and she is really into me. My girlfriend and I split up, and I have hung out with the new girl a few times. It's been nice. However, I wake up in the morning and miss my old girl very much, but as the day continues, my mind seems to go towards the newer girl. I told the newer girl I missed my old girl this morning, and she was pretty upset. Now, I'm sitting here wondering if I made the right decision. Such a big dilemma I'm in right now, so any advice is appreciated. Thanks, guys!
Roadkill007 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 you made a bad decision to talk to your new girl about your old girl. I know it's nice to reminisce about the good ole days, but try to remember that now you're trying to make something new with another person who doesn't want to feel like she's being compared to someone in your past. So... make up your mind and stick to it. If you can't make up your mind on which one you want more.... chances are you shouldn't be in anything serious atm (relationshipwise). Figure yourself out. 2
atlg8r Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Yeah, having personally been the "new girl" in a similar scenario, the best thing you can do is shut up about it to either one. Neither girl wants to hear how you can't make up your mind. Second, if you can't really decide, you probably shouldn't be with either one. You would know if you really felt strongly for one or the other. What you're doing is extremely cruel. Whatever you decide, you need to cut ties with the one(s) you do NOT choose. Let her (them) move on with their lives! 1
Phantom888 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 As stated above, it's really cruel of you to treat these 2 women like this. How would you like it if your lady did that to you? It's not fair. You need to just chill and let these girls find the man that is right for them.
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