William09 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 6 months ago (well i've been going NC for about 6 months and I did the whole complete block thing) and i've been really good about it for about 4 months. Recently out of nowhere I've recently had this huge urge of missing her and realizing I still love her (she initiated the breakup btw). And now i'm coming to the point where I just wanna text her outta the blue and talk to her. Should I just let go and ignore these constant feelings? Will it go away?
denxnis Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 I definitely feel you on this one but I think it's best to ride it out. I actually going through something very similar. Think of it this way, your old job fired you. Maybe they send you a get well soon or how are you doing card in the mail... They never said they miss you, want to hire you back etc... Best thing you can do is improve your "resume", aka yourself, and find a better job. I'm actually going to try and take my own advice on this one as well. 8) 1
eddyctv Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 6 months ago (well i've been going NC for about 6 months and I did the whole complete block thing) and i've been really good about it for about 4 months. Recently out of nowhere I've recently had this huge urge of missing her and realizing I still love her (she initiated the breakup btw). And now i'm coming to the point where I just wanna text her outta the blue and talk to her. Should I just let go and ignore these constant feelings? Will it go away? The one thing that keeps me from breaking NC is that i would be afraid of what she tells me she is up to...like being in love with someone else... 1
Inviv_girl Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Meh, you dont want to know whats going on in her life now do you? It will only make you head over heal of sadness to know if she is happy with her new love, etc.. You did it pretty well those 6 months of NC so keep it up!
HopelessRomantick Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Keep going NC. 6 months is a huge milestone! Do NOT contact her.
forgetmenot75 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 No. Keep NC forever. She does not want to talk to you. She's probably with someone else and you're past.
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