missjones4812 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 I was with my ex for almost 3 years, had a son with him only to have him leave us about 5 months ago with NO warning for some whore he works with. He moved in with her the same day he left us. They "hung out" 5 times outside of work before I caught them. Basically what I want to know is does he miss me? Does he regret leaving us? Me? I should never want this ******* in my life again after the devestation he has caused me, but I can't help but hope that one day he will beg for us back. Maybe I am holding on to false hope or just want the pain to stop...Thoughts?
swandive83 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 MissJones, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. There's no way of knowing whether he misses you at this very moment, but I can assure you that if he has any heart or soul, that he will think of his son eventually and perhaps (and hopefully) regret what he's done by leaving you and him. Depending on what type of person he is, this might take a few days, a few weeks, or even a few months. Were you two having trouble before he left?
Author missjones4812 Posted June 27, 2013 Author Posted June 27, 2013 Swandive, We weren't having any issues. Looking back, I see that he became distant when they started hanging out. He told me that "he guesses he was just unhappy." But couldn't give me a reason why. I don't know, just want to him to realize what he gave up. I was so good to him, and took wonderful care of our child. I still do, but now I am alone. The selfishness and cowardice way he destroyed our family has took something out of my soul. I really feel like I will never be the same or be able to open up to anyone again.
SimonSerenade Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Don't beat yourself up, As he matures in life I'm sure he will one day come to regret his actions, some men when there on the edge of making a big commitment act out like this, I would say it's more about that than anything you did, it is selfish and it is a cowardly way out, if he has a conscience he will look back on that and feel disgust with himself, you will love again and you will move on to better things, you have a child and right now be should be the priority in your life, easier said than done but don't give this man a second thought.
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