youwould Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Ok so me and this girl have been having sex. We started having sex pretty much right away. First time was literally the 3rd time we saw one another in person (didn't even go on dates beforehand). I'm a bro dude type, she's a dorky hipster type who has recently come out of her shell. She realized in the last two years that she can have her way with men by flaunting her sexuality. She was attracted to me originally because I said 'no' to her. I kind of want to date this girl, but she raises a lot of red flags. she's a bit flaky, very independent, and has lots of male orbiters who worship the ground she walks on. she MAY be hooking up with one of them, but I really don't think so (she says I'm the only one). she occasionally talks about previous hookups and such, but I put a stop to that. We're kind of in a power struggle here, since she's flaunting these orbiters to mess with me, but I'm the one sexing her (she talks about me with these orbiters). Thus far we only get together on HER terms, and I've called her out on that, but we always have se. And we both keep pressuring each other to be up front with our intentions, which I have recently. I won't lie, I've been out of the dating scene for a minute, am a bit lonely, and would like to just get some dating done. I do really like her because we interact VERY well, and would be such a power couple together. my question: is there a good way to end this power struggle and just close this thing? Should I just be happy that I'm banging a hot little number? or should I ditch this situation?
Roadkill007 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 excuse me while I head-desk relentlessly for at least 5 minutes.... If you want to date her, put it out there. If you don't feel it's worth the risk, just enjoy the ride. Sounds like ****-buddies to me though.
Author youwould Posted June 27, 2013 Author Posted June 27, 2013 excuse me while I head-desk relentlessly for at least 5 minutes.... If you want to date her, put it out there. If you don't feel it's worth the risk, just enjoy the ride. Sounds like ****-buddies to me though. she keeps saying that she wont be my FB, and that she doesnt want to have sex. but we always do anyway. I told her today that i wanted her to be mine. naturally she's hesitating to respond clearly
iamawesome Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 excuse me while I head-desk relentlessly for at least 5 minutes.... If you want to date her, put it out there. If you don't feel it's worth the risk, just enjoy the ride. Sounds like ****-buddies to me though. Agreed, ask her directly. If she doesn't like the idea, or whatever womanesse she lays out that translates into a no, then I would ditch the situation. With time you can always try it out again without becoming a part of her harem.
Phantom888 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 You guys need to calm down, with your pants ON, and talk about you 2. If you want her to be your girl, tell her....actually MAKE her. She doesn't sound like she is very decisive, so YOU have the control. Forget about her terms... You are the dude, and you are in control. None of that ****-buddy crap. You have FBs who are low-quality girls that you don't respect. A fine girl with class should not be treated like a FB. You decide what category she belongs to. Peace.
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