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My lady and I will celebrate our 1 month anniversary tomorrow, but she has to work. So we won't see each other till Friday. I really want to send her flowers at her work place. Her boss and coworkers know about our relationship. I am considering sending her a mixed bouquet of nice pretty flowers. Is this appropriate? Ladies, would you mind if your boyfriend of 1 month sent you flowers at your work to commemorate the anniversary?

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Lol. One month anniversary? You are really cute. Are you going to celebrate the 2nd and 3rd and 4th and 5th month anniversaries too? Better start saving:p

 

You could send flowers. But how are you going to keep up with this every month? Celebrating 12 anniversaries in a year....

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My lady and I will celebrate our 1 month anniversary tomorrow, but she has to work. So we won't see each other till Friday. I really want to send her flowers at her work place. Her boss and coworkers know about our relationship. I am considering sending her a mixed bouquet of nice pretty flowers. Is this appropriate? Ladies, would you mind if your boyfriend of 1 month sent you flowers at your work to commemorate the anniversary?

 

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No i wouldn't mind. However I would wonder how sustainable it would be?

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Lol. One month anniversary? You are really cute. Are you going to celebrate the 2nd and 3rd and 4th and 5th month anniversaries too? Better start saving:p

 

You could send flowers. But how are you going to keep up with this every month? Celebrating 12 anniversaries in a year....

 

Ummm... I'm 38 years old. I work for a large company, and have a C in front of my job title. It's not like I'm an 18-year-old pizza deliverer. I mean, one gift per month is kinda light to me. I think I can sustain anniversary gifts as long as she likes them.

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I personally think it's really cute... mixed flowers are simple and meaningful without going overboard.

 

It's not like he's giving her jewelry or concert tix guys- us girls like the little things! If you like a girl, wouldn't you want to make her smile!? Sheesh! lol

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Other than for professional accomplishments, I do not like to receive flowers at my office. It's too personal. Romantic gestures , to me, have no place in my professional life. I'd prefer to receive them at home.

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I think it's sweet, given that men usually don't remember these types of things. She'll probably love it. Go for it.

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I would love it, and it would make my day. But I'm a romantic sap :love:

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Personally, I wouldnt celebrate anything but the first year anniversary. One month is too soon and if i got it at work id be embarassed

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Divasu Established Member

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Completely appropriate...

 

You guys are bf/gf, sleeping together, how would it not be appropriate? :confused:

 

Ignore the naysayers about it being "too soon" to celebrate a 1 month anniversary, it's cute and so what if you're a bit of a cornball. :bunny::)

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I'd like the flowers a lot, but maybe not at work!

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I once had a bf that was like this. It made me feel smothered after such a short period of time. Finally, I had to tell him to back off a bit even though I was falling in love with him. It sounds like too much too soon to me.

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It might be too much too soon, that's why I suggest not to send the flowers at work. But I'd prefer too much too soon and being suffocated to being anxious and not knowing for sure where you stand.

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Keenly Established Member

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For one month? I say flowers, but either in person or on her doorstep so you leave her wanting more as well as satisfied.

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I once had a bf that was like this. It made me feel smothered after such a short period of time. Finally, I had to tell him to back off a bit even though I was falling in love with him. It sounds like too much too soon to me.

 

Ya, have to agree.

 

Work is work, keep it professional unless it's her birthday, then it's ok :).

 

I'm all for love and stuff, am in a great committed relationship just 2 months along but I think I would feel a bit awkward with flowers at work after a month.

 

Just the fact that you remember it will be enough for her I'm sure. In fact, why don't you just write her a note expressing how you feel and tuck it into her hand as you are departing... just a thought :)

 

Its the little things that count.

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You two are grown ups and obviously crazy about each other, I think she'll love the gesture !

 

As far as the relationship being too "young" for sending flowers, sheesh, I don't have enough fingers for the amount of bouquets I've received from men while we were just dating, not BF/GF, not sexually intimate. ( and yes, some became BF's, the flowers had NO effect on my attraction level)

 

My current H and I moved quickly like you two, and on our first month anniversary he gave me a little silver dragonfly necklace....I STILL haven't taken it off !:love:

 

Go for it and enjoy ! I am happy to hear stories of people falling in love !

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My lady and I will celebrate our 1 month anniversary tomorrow, but she has to work. So we won't see each other till Friday. I really want to send her flowers at her work place. Her boss and coworkers know about our relationship. I am considering sending her a mixed bouquet of nice pretty flowers. Is this appropriate? Ladies, would you mind if your boyfriend of 1 month sent you flowers at your work to commemorate the anniversary?
I gave you a like for good reason. Now go do it!

 

p.s. My husband proposed after 6+ weeks of dating and only a few weeks into a relationship. :love:

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Well, I think it's appropriate... but some ladies don't like getting them at work on a random day (I know it's not random to you, but it's random to everyone else there).

 

Just have them sent to her doorstep instead if you can't possibly give them to her in person?

 

I'd personally find a monthly anniversary a bit odd, but if your girl has said that she likes them, by all means do it!

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I would say, surprise her by picking her up after work and taking her out to a nice dinner - not necessarily something expensive, but thoughtful.

 

(You could always turn up with the small bouquet of mixed flowers when you do that.)

 

And she's one lucky lady!

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Awe :love:

 

I say do it! Its really sweet and thoughtful. Small gestures are the best.

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How many dates have you gone on in one month? To me it seems like too much and you are really raising her expectations. If one month you don't send her a gift she will start wondering what is wrong.

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Is this appropriate?

 

Flowers for your girlfriend are always appropriate! :)

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You could show up on her doorstep naked, save for the bouquet covering the real package you have for her. ;)

 

But seriously, I'd love to get them. As for at work or not, I would guess you've been together enough to gauge whether she would feel it's okay or would rather get them at home.

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I think that's a little too soon.

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I gave you a like for good reason. Now go do it!

 

p.s. My husband proposed after 6+ weeks of dating and only a few weeks into a relationship. :love:

 

I am sooooo going to propose to her..... I'm thinking the 6-8 months mark. I have enough life/relationship experience to know what I want, and I am certain I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Plus I saw a ring catalog on her nightstand, so I know she feels the same. :D

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