Having a hard time dealing with break up w short tempered bf and coping its over?

[toteslittlelady]

Hello guys i need advice with something okay so i was dating this guy for over 8 months. he messed up once and i decided to give him a second chance. after i gave him a 2nd chance he was wonderful! we went on a getaway trip, got so much closer than ever before, great sex, anything amazing you can think of a relationship happened between us. unfortunately i caught him ****ing up again :'( his ex refuses to leave the picture but he also allows her to intervene so i cannot put it all on her. it hurts.

 

anyway, i went to break it off with him, we ended in pretty bad terms because he refused and he kept trying to patch up his lie saying "those pictures are from a year ago". now, we have a little circle of mutual friends, one of his (our) friends named E is my dealer so the other night i went to E's house to cop, my ex was just happened to be at E's that night. E told my ex i was coming to grab and i guess my ex got upset and he told E not to serve me up anything. he also told E the reason "HE" broke up with me was because i was becoming "obsessive" which is NOT true and that is not the reason why we ended it, he all of the sudden came over to E's house with his "ex" (gf now i guess...) and our friends didn't even like the chick. we were doing so good, why is this guy being SO mean?! could it be his ego or is he hurt?

 

in his eyes i bet he think he is right or maybe i'm just thinking out loud for him. it has been a month since we spoke and i doubt he will let go on his pride to reach me out... what shall i do? this sucks... i miss our routine, maybe his concept or perhaps, him? please help!

Edited June 27, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator