Justano Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 So I will get right to whats been happening lately. I wont explain this post why we broke up. But anyhow, lets begin. So of this may be out of order. I tried to do the no contact with my ex girlfriend. It happened on accident. I didn't hit enter on a txt. A few days later, she started to txt me. Asking me questions trying to get me to respond. I didn't respond due to the hour i was txted, work and basicly being busy. So she got mad and said why am I ignoring her that it wasn't right. I thought you wanted to be friends. (Mind you she broke up with me and left me when i wasn't home. Also it seemed she went to another guy). So i caved and txted her and explained ive been busy. We had a short convo, it ended when she asked if i talked to the relationship counselor that was helping me with issues i was fixing. I asnwered sort of, we both been busy. Why? She didn't respond. A day later, she asked me a question she knew the answer to. She even was trying to find reasons to be mad at me, mainly due to i wasn't yelling at her and stuff. She then started to get more mean and i asked her why. She said im only being friends hoping we were gettig back together. Which isnt entirely true. If we are only friends i would deal and let her be happy. I explained this all but she didn't believe me. Later that night, she messaged me on a social media site with a random none angry question. Some other facts, she txted me for a whole day when her boyfriend wasn't around. She joked with me alot via txt. She became way mor active on the web with posting stuff. Some seemly directed at me. This was told to me by friends I tried to break off contact but we also have friends in common. I do still care for her and love her. So im trying to give her space and so forth. But she keeps contacting me. Some people say is because she realized her mistakes but is scared to admit it. So she is covering it up with anger and bully tactics. Hoping ill get mad or give her the answers she wants to hear. Help is needed or atleast some insight from others.
salparadise Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 I can't quite figure out what's going on. All I can tell is that she broke up with you, now she's angry at you for not communicating as she desires, but she's with another guy or something like that. What's your question? Why don't you just be done with this mess? She sounds like a nutcase to me.
aliveagain Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 She didn't respect you enough to break up with you in person, she waited until you were out of town. She already has a new boyfriend(I think she already had him before she broke up with you) but keeps contact with you, I guess the grass wasn't greener and his s*it stinks after all. She's looking to upgrade and he wasn't what she thought now she wants you back until the really good upgrade comes along, come on man just cut it off, go no contact, crickets. You deserve better than a girlfriend that's dating other men. How can you ever feel safe with someone like her? Run!
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