To be or not to be that is the question?

[Bogey]

Now im in a very confusing predicament ny ex of 3 years have just broken up again. I know we're young (21) and honestly the sex is amazing we both know it. we've had our break and have had sex with others.

 

In general we both decided to just be friends with benefits we know we're both young and still have a lot to experience and speaking for myself I only want her happiness and for her to live her life to the fullest.

 

MY issue seems to be that I am head over heel in love with this girl I was worse before and would kind of be annoying but now I kind of just let things be and never really start a problem.

 

Idk what to do cause I still want her I guess maybe the idea that shes mine but I dont want to push that upon her cause I KNOW it will drive her away. Do you think theres more to the sex besides just the physical aspect or is it emotionally too? shes not the type of girl to have sex with anyone she has to be comfortable with them and we still talk on a daily basis and she just said she misses me...DO YOU SEE WHY IM SO CONFUSED!!!!!

[flitzanu]

Now im in a very confusing predicament ny ex of 3 years have just broken up again. I know we're young (21) and honestly the sex is amazing we both know it. we've had our break and have had sex with others.

 

In general we both decided to just be friends with benefits we know we're both young and still have a lot to experience and speaking for myself I only want her happiness and for her to live her life to the fullest.

 

MY issue seems to be that I am head over heel in love with this girl I was worse before and would kind of be annoying but now I kind of just let things be and never really start a problem.

 

Idk what to do cause I still want her I guess maybe the idea that shes mine but I dont want to push that upon her cause I KNOW it will drive her away. Do you think theres more to the sex besides just the physical aspect or is it emotionally too? shes not the type of girl to have sex with anyone she has to be comfortable with them and we still talk on a daily basis and she just said she misses me...DO YOU SEE WHY IM SO CONFUSED!!!!!

 

if you broke up, then no, the sex doesn't mean anything. she can miss you all she wants, but if she won't date you, then she'll be leaving as soon as she finds a replacement.