BC1980 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 All this talking things over and rehashing it is setting you up for trouble. There will never be a good enough reason or closure. You will never have said all to need to say. You will think of something else and want to tell her. Listen to the people here who have done this before.
starlet86 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 I done the whole "getting everything off my chest" thing every other night with my ex. I would go in a huff, he'd call me, I'd say everything I wanted to say, we'd end up talking normally, everything would be fine. 2 days would pass and I'd be like "oh I want to say this, damn I should have said it the other night" then I would do something to get a reaction from him so I could say all my new speil and then we'd do it all again. You will always have something else you want to say, until she says what you want to hear and even then you wont be happy because even if you write it word for word, you wont know if it is true or if she is doing it to keep you on side. There is no happiness to come from this. Cancel, see her reaction. Then decide. If she doesn't give a damn that you are cancelling on her, then take it as a close shave to the pride. If she does give a damn and actually puts in effort then it is worth the risk.
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