FlockaFlex Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 I woke up this morning with a long text from my ex basically telling me how I was a bad boyfriend and that I am no better than she was. She was the one who broke up with me. I don't understand her reasoning for having to go off on me like this. Should I text her back or should I just ignore her and continue to drive her crazy with NC cuz she does know she did me so dirty and I think its eating her up inside??? Need some serious advice guys Thx
Nyclovin Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 It's a trap. I would be more inclined to think about texting back if she was professing her undying love for you. But don't dignify her nasty text with a response. She will probably send you an I'm sorry text in a day or so is she is any kind of normal. Just let her stew.
Renard99 Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Ignore it She's living with her consequences and trying to justify leaving you. Effectively she's just clutching at straws and in my opinion just leave her to it. You know it's not true and that's the important thing. My ex did something similar to me, only my ex took some really minor things and blew them well out of proportion, blaming the whole breakup on these little points and it was all my fault she left. I'm a stubborn person by nature so I actually argued back and proved on many occasions that what she said was ridiculous or downright untrue. It was all to no avail and I'd wasted time and energy. Save your energy and just let her mull it over in her head.
Giha Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Don't let her relieve her guilt by getting drawn into this trap...stay the NC course.
SimonSerenade Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Nobody likes being ignored but under those circumstances it might be ideal until she calms down and is thinking clearly, sometimes it takes more than a good month or so for the smoke to clear, either way right now she is holding you solely responsible for the demise of your relationship, that ain't right and it really isn't worth replying to somebody in that mindset, don't let it get you too down, everybody makes mistakes in relationships and it takes somebody with emotional maturity to understand that, nobody is perfect and unfortunately sometimes we are all guilty of expecting somebody to be. Forgive yourself, that's the first thing you should do, anything she says or does afterwards wont bother you as much after that.
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