Heidi Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 I’m not absolutely sure but I suspect my boyfriend might be a little bit gay. He acts as straight as six o’clock in public and all the girls think he’s a hottie but I’m not convinced. I’m not complaining because he’s really really good to me and I don’t want to stop seeing him but the more I learn about him the more I wonder. Like last night he let slip how he used to take part in what he called circle jerks. It seems that he and a bunch of his buddies would meet somewhere and masturbate together. I told him I’d heard about such things but that he was the first guy I’d ever met who actually admitted to participating in one so I had lots of questions which he answered without the least embarrassment. In fact you could tell he got a kick out of recalling these experiences. He claimed that almost all males have engaged in this type of activity at one time or another. He said it’s common practice among teenage boys. When I asked him what they used to get themselves aroused at these gatherings he said they’d sometimes watch porn tapes but usually just watched each other. He went on to say how funny it was the way they’d all come about the same time. He explained how the sight of one of them spurting would trigger the rest. He compared it to how seeing someone yawn makes you yawn too. He insisted there was nothing wrong with it because none of the guys ever touched each other but it seems a little peculiar to me. I’m curious to know if it’s really as common as he says. I’d be ever so grateful for a second opinion from someone with first-hand knowledge. XOXO. Heidi
dyermaker Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Usually when people ask if they're boyfriends are gay, they're just wondering why he likes anal stimulation with a woman. Your case is much different. Circle jerks? That's not normal heterosexual male behavior where I'm from, and my town's pretty damn gay.
Stone Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 I would be a little worried my dear, I have never meet a man who has admitted to this one.
jesusfist Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 yeh that sounds a wee bit...odd to say the least
Rez Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Male here, and Ive never done anything remotely resembling that...or ever even considered it for that matter. Ive heard of it, but never known anyone thats done it, or admitted it anyway. Him saying he was aroused watching the other guys do it and how it aroused him watching a guy cum... I dunno... I dont know many straight men who would feel that way. At the very least, Id say hes somewhat bisexual.
bluetuesday Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 sounds to me a bit like 'the old biscuit game' which is legendarily played in boys' public schools in the uk. public schools, for those who don't know, are private, fee-paying, usually excellent schools such as eton and harrow, a number are boarding schools and many have no girls attending. they're also notorious homosexual breeding grounds. you all gather round in an inward-facing circle, masturbating, and you have to try to ejaculate onto a biscuit that's been placed in the middle of the group. the last one to come has to eat the biscuit. vile. could explain the number of cases of premature ejaculation cases out there too. i've spoken to one man who said he took part in a similar game but 'relay' where you pull off the boy standing to your right, and he claimed never to have been gay and was in fact married with kids. i'd wager than unless homosexuality is a choice, your boyfriend won't (can't) be 'turned gay' by having taken part in something like this if being gay is not his natural inclination. but it's definitely not normal heterosexual behaviour. i think you're right to worry.
dyermaker Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 The game's called "Limp Biscuit", and it came before the band (no pun intended). Bluetuesday, are you certain people partake in it? I thought it was a game you described to people for laughs and eww's, not something someone would actually dream of doing, for the simple fact that there's a distinct possiblity you could eat a jizzcovered biscuit.
bluetuesday Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 i've never been in on it personally but the relay guy insisted he'd done it. but i agree, never mix your sweets and saltys.
dyermaker Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Well you're not elligible for the game anyway.
moimeme Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 So I had some lovely sweet hot chocolate with some lovely sweet/salty Pecan Passion cookies and now it's time to visit dreamland.
CurlyIam Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Wooow, by the time you guys posted that, it was 9:30, 10 AM here. Sometimes I'm amased at how we even get together and all... Well, it is almost 12now here... LSers, if you're on the same time as I am, have a great day, 'cause the morning is long gone !!!!That makes blue the safest bet, but one never knows.
Mr baseball Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Heidi I dont know why he would even admit to this type of behavior. Gay? In touch with sexual side? I can say I have never seen another male that was "hard" in person! I would never think to brag of this type of thing! W.T.F!!!
bluetuesday Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Originally posted by CurlyIam That makes blue the safest bet, but one never knows. yeah, i'm still here. it's quarter to 12 and i'm not even dressed yet, it's shocking. gotta get off LS and go where the real people are soon. pap may still be around, he's on the same time as you i believe, curly. dyer should really have gone to bed now. it must be something past 3 in the morning in frisco.
CurlyIam Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Woow, me too! I suddenly feel less alone !!! Dyer, Go To Sleep! And leave the stock market alone (I was a bit hysterical when I read that, I admit)!! PAp... I'll PM you...
dyermaker Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 It's rounding four. What's wrong with me? I just spent the last 20 minutes trying to repair a zippo lighter. It's pretty messed up.
Stone Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Originally posted by bluetuesday you all gather round in an inward-facing circle, masturbating, and you have to try to ejaculate onto a biscuit that's been placed in the middle of the group. the last one to come has to eat the biscuit. . I have heard of this before in Frats called a loaf party, I always thought people we're pulling my leg! Guess not
Papillon Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 I've heard it happen in the dorms at varsity. Alcohol is normally implicated. It's called a "PeePee Parade". I've participated in one, but it only involved pissing in a circle.
Papillon Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Everybody stands in a big circle on the lawn, facing inwards, pissing freely, all while singing some univerally known song. Like the anthem or something Of course, the beer doth flow, so there's no shortage of participants. Lots of young men in a golden moment
bluetuesday Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 there's no way around it. men have loads more fun than we do. i went to see 'puppetry of the penis' a few weeks ago with my mate mark. when we got home he had one to practice with and i didn't. i wanted to make a hamburger but nothing doing. you can't do anything good with tits. they just sit there. not fair.
Papillon Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 'Zat so? Bring them here, I'll show you a trick or two.
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