daddy87 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Been trying to do LC with my ex...but suddenly got that feeling wondering what shes up to? who she with? is she with a different guy right now?! All i want to do is give her a txt and tell her how much i miss her but i know it wont change anything at the moment and maybe piss her off aswell. how can i stay strong???
Sneaky Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Write down what you're thinking about saying in word, then delete it or keep yourself distracted, toss your phone in another room and put on a tv show or read something. Anything to keep your mind off her.
TaraMaiden Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 OP: why are you only in LC? Why aren't you in full-blown, no-nonsense total No Contact?
TaraMaiden Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 LC should be used to talk about your child, and only about your child. Nothing else. Keep it brief, keep it 'on topic' keep it short and simple. Do not get into discussions about her, what she's doing, how she is, where she is, who she's with, what she's doing with them, why she's doing it or when she started doing it. That is NOT your business. It's been OVER A YEAR that she broke up with you. Really, you need to start getting over this. Why are you still in this frame of mind?? Have you had counselling/therapy? I think you should research the opportunity, because this is just you, crippling yourself, for the sake of it..... 1
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