Infinity0 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Seriously ever since I got separated, I either have started making myself look really available or the minutes at the gym (wish I could say hours lol) and the fake tans are really paying off! I am dating so much. For some reason it seems like all the guys that are my type (appearance wise) are asking me out. Heck I was on the phone with this army dude at work who was calling from Iraq and he started hitting on me on the phone. He eventually asked me out without even knowing what I look like (he will be back in USA in 2 weeks!) and he said "don't worry I'm tall and handsome I wont disappoint you" LOL So anyways I feel like I have all these options and it is making it even harder to focus on only one person and try pursue a relationship. Is this normal post-divorce-mid-twenties behaviour or am I acting immature? Should I slow down or enjoy it? Is it ok to date more than one person at a time? I got in a serious relationship at 18 and married that person at 22, so any dating advise will be appreciated since I don't want to disrespect the guys I am seeing. Also I have only slept with one man (my ex husband) and I am very scared to have sex with anyone else because honestly I don't know how to....I mean I know HOW to, but you get what I mean.
henderson14 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Seriously ever since I got separated, I either have started making myself look really available or the minutes at the gym (wish I could say hours lol) and the fake tans are really paying off! I am dating so much. For some reason it seems like all the guys that are my type (appearance wise) are asking me out. Heck I was on the phone with this army dude at work who was calling from Iraq and he started hitting on me on the phone. He eventually asked me out without even knowing what I look like (he will be back in USA in 2 weeks!) and he said "don't worry I'm tall and handsome I wont disappoint you" LOL So anyways I feel like I have all these options and it is making it even harder to focus on only one person and try pursue a relationship. Is this normal post-divorce-mid-twenties behaviour or am I acting immature? Should I slow down or enjoy it? Is it ok to date more than one person at a time? I got in a serious relationship at 18 and married that person at 22, so any dating advise will be appreciated since I don't want to disrespect the guys I am seeing. Also I have only slept with one man (my ex husband) and I am very scared to have sex with anyone else because honestly I don't know how to....I mean I know HOW to, but you get what I mean. You must have forgotten what its like to be a female. Your in your mid 20s. There is something wrong if guys aren't hitting on you. Your in your prime! And forget the tans. I don't think most guys think tanning looks good on women or even care. I don't.
Phantom888 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 I think you should keep your antennas up and just be smart about things. There are plenty of *******s out there looking for non-committal free sex, so you want to stay away from them if you are the "relationship" type. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with dating multiple people, as long as you are not having sex with all of them. No man wants a slutty girl. Just keep an open mind and have fun.
Author Infinity0 Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 You must have forgotten what its like to be a female. Your in your mid 20s. There is something wrong if guys aren't hitting on you. Your in your prime! And forget the tans. I don't think most guys think tanning looks good on women or even care. I don't. Guys hitting on a female and a female accepting to go out with them are two totally different things.
Author Infinity0 Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 I think you should keep your antennas up and just be smart about things. There are plenty of *******s out there looking for non-committal free sex, so you want to stay away from them if you are the "relationship" type. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with dating multiple people, as long as you are not having sex with all of them. No man wants a slutty girl. Just keep an open mind and have fun. Thnx for the advise
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