Breaking up after 2 weeks relation and texting again after 2 months

[mm20]

Hi all,

 

I was in a relation with a girl for about 2 weeks, after that she text that she is not interested anymore and when I asked where is the problem she said "it is not s.th. personal" so I was begging and then stopped. But now after two months she text and said "How are you?"

I dont understand from this message if she is really like me or not. Now however I really like her, and I dont know if I should replay her or totally forget her, so could some expert please answer my question?

Thank you.

[athousandquestions]

Do not reply. Read around this website and you will see that this is called a 'breadcrumb' - when your ex reaches out to you for various reasons.

 

Your ex may be genuinely curious about how you are doing, but she does not want to get back together.

 

She may feel guilty about how things ended with you, but she does not want to get back together.

 

She may want to catch up, but she does not want to get back together.

 

She may want to vent to you and use you as an emotional crutch, but she does not want to get back together.

 

 

Stay No Contact (if you are not no contact already, cut off all contact and delete her off every website immediately).

 

Unless she says "I made a mistake and I want to work on things and get back together" DO NOT REPLY TO HER.

 

She is simply trying to mess with your feelings and see if you still care about you.

[mm20]

Do you mean that I shouldnt ask her what she wants?

[StrongLass]

Do you mean that I shouldnt ask her what she wants?

 

He's saying that you shouldn't reply to anything she says AT ALL, unless she says some variation of "I want to get back together with you"