kye1987 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 The guy I've been flirting with lately works at a coffee shop. We're still getting to know each other right now and he very obviously like me. Anyway, the other day I was hanging out in the coffee shop when he came into work. We usually flirt a lot, and this day was no exception. He looked over at me once and looked away really fast. I felt this tension between us start to build. As time when on the tension between us got stronger and stronger. I could feel he was watching me and paying attention to my body language even though he wasn't looking directly at me. At one point, he stood there taking a drink of his water and I looked over at him for a few seconds. I could tell he was watching me again, but not looking directly at me. After I looked away, he looked over at me for about the same amount of the time before looking away. Whenever he was talking to other customers, he was talking loud enough for me to hear and in a deep, sort of husky voice. I started to get really antsy and nervous. I couldn't sit still in my seat. He appeared to be very calm and collected, but I could tell the feeling was mutual because sometimes he would pull away for a minute and I went back to sitting still in my seat. Then a minute later it would start up again. One of our mutual friends came in and started talking with him. She came over to me and talked to me for a few minutes. As she walked over to me from him I saw him staring at me from my peripheral vision. He waited a few seconds before releasing the tension, like he wanted it to last just a few seconds longer. I could still feel a little bit coming from him as I packed up to leave the coffee shop. No words were spoken between the two of us that day and he was working behind the counter as I was sitting at a table a little ways away from him. I guess you could say this was happening from across the room. So, was it sexual tension or my imagination?
Infinity0 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Your imagination. Sorry. He would try talking to you. It really seems to be all in your head. Maybe you are starring at him or looking at him with the corner of your eye and he thinks you're weird and feels uncomfortable. Have u and him ever had a conversation? Does he smile at you and ask you personal questions or try to have random conversations when you're ordering coffee?
CarrieT Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 All in your imagination. He might be interested, but YOU are building the sexual tension...
Author kye1987 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 He shows all the classic signs a guy likes a girl. We talk most every day actually. He's my weekend plans several times. He smiles from across the room and looks me right in the eyes. He teases me. He touches me when he gets the chance to. It's just that sometimes there's like a magnetic force between us and it gets stronger when we aren't talking but are still flirting
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