Confusion_Reigns Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Hello everyone, I wasn't sure where to put this (here, infidelity or other) but decided here's a good place to start... My questions is: Have you ever fallen out of love?What did it feel like?How did you know that's what was happening?How did you and/or significant other act/react?Was it a process? Or did it happen all at once?My own answers: I don't think I have, but might be experiencing this right now.It hurts but there's also a lightness about the experience.I don't know if this is what's happening now or if I'm just going through some 'phase' and that's a bit concerning to me.My husband is 1) flipping out, 2) blaming me for every bad thing in life, and 3) swinging wildly from loving me to hating me...I never really know what I'm coming home toI don't know and this is why I'm asking...but, yes, I think it's a process that has been in the works for years. Thank you for your thoughts.
LilGirlandOW Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 1. yes 2. felt like things went from H/W to siblings 3. it just happened? the worst answer on LS i know, but thats all i can explain it as
omit Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 (edited) At a guess slowly just don't feel same, might not enjoy time together as much. or loose the feeling of wanting to be with them intensely. like cant wait to get home from work to see your partner or would leave a party early to go home and have your own party together. I think it might have happened to me but I find it hard to actually believe that I just don't love them same way or as much. typing it is easy saying it is really hard. What I would suggest though is look for what you do like look for help to bring sparkle back. Love can be hard and has its ups and its downs that's life. Need to let him know what he's doing, it can grind you down that behaviour. Does he have other problems going on that hes not talking about? Edited June 25, 2013 by omit
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