Ruby Slippers Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Dave Navarro grabbed my ass once...I'll never forget that night. I love you Dave! I had a friend in college who targeted hot musicians. She would never shut up about all the famous musicians she banged
Negative Nancy Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 It never ceases to amaze me how some women line up to reward men with sex simply because they are on stage, playing an instrument, and/or signing. They don't know these guys but they are ready to strip off and bang them at a moment's notice. It astounds me that some people can be so completely bereft of common sense and/or intelligence. As if men wouldn't do the same with their favorite porn star. :rolleyes: 4
TouchedByViolet Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 OP, if you want to have a good time in the future message him. I just wouldn't expect anything long term is all. For a weekend fling he may be just what you are looking for. Sometimes I wish I lived the life of drugs, sex and rock&roll. I was reading about motley crue and am surprised they are alive in their 50s and 60s considering the insanity of their lives.
ASG Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 I've dated a few famous people. Just don't act like a groupie, don't text them first, don't act impressed with what they do and you'll 100% hear from him again. The above may get you laid but it won't get you respect or a relationship. Oh, and don't use "He's so busy, he might forget!" as an excuse to text him when he comes to town. He's famous, not brain-dead. Even famous people have memories! If you MUST text him as a "reminder" DO NOT do it the day before he's in your area/don't mention him being in your area. Text him 4-5 days before SOMETHING COMPLETELY UNRELATED, like an inside joke. Whether he hooks up a lot on the road you'll never know. I know a guy in a band who said when he was younger all he did was sleep with girls. Now he's bored of that and touring wears him out so he's more likely to want to have a conversation. Don't assume either way. Just act normal and don't do anything you wouldn't otherwise do. These guys aren't turned on (long-term at least) by you acting desperate. They will notice you when you DON'T act like every other groupie. This! I've never had anything with famous musicians (they were all very much not famous), but I have had flings with famous actors. There's a guy I have a standing thing with, he's been in a couple of relatively famous TV Shows. He *always* lets me know when he's gonna be near me. I try not to hog him with emails, as we have a pretty casual thing going on and I don't want to upset the balance. And I don't have to. I'm his go to girl this side of the Atlantic. A few of my friends have similar arrangements with other somewhat famous people. If they're the ones traveling they drop them an email. If they're the ones traveling they do. It is what it is. though none of us is actually looking for a relationship with these guys. The sheer logistics of it would make it impossible. But it is possible to maintain a casual FWB/**** buddy thing going, if that's your style. If it's not, though, I'd steer well clear!
Phantom888 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Damn I actually have a story related to this topic, and I'm a dude! Right after my divorce, I was lonely and horny as hell. I went on Craigslist to offer ladies free massages. I kinda did it as semi-jokingly because there was no way any woman would respond. Then suddenly, a lady responded with her picture and everything! I was skeptical, but I figured I had nothing to lose.... I was depressed, so if she were a murderer, she would be doing me a favor. Met her at a coffee shop, and she was the exact lady in the picture. Then we chatted.... went to her place.... I massaged her nude body, and we had sex. This was like freakin' impossible, especially in my world... but it happened. Turned out she was a famous person in the Burlesque business. If you know people in burlesque (classic stripping), she is one of the best performers. She's my age, and hot as hell. To this day I still couldn't believe what happened. And after that, for the next 4 weeks, she would schedule free massage/sex sessions with me. It was damn awesome.
Author sarah1268 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 Haha wow I wasn't expecting such a range of responses! Ok firstly thanks for all your interesting stories, such a good read! Some of you have given pratical tips, especially about treating him as a normal dude, which is exactly what I did haha. Texting has been all inside jokes. Also do you guys think I'm retarted? Of course I don't want to date him! Just bang him! I just got out of a four yr relationship and this would be the ideal rebound! FYI for those who are assuming I'm a dumb groupie, I actually have an economics degree and work in finance. He's in a heavy metal band which is great because most of the fans are male or ugly/ really young girls. And no I don't just wanna get with him because he's in a band, he had long hair which is totally my thing! Oh and we both like to party... think mind altering substances. He was the nicest dude, like when we were out the front of the club some girl was crying because she didn't have money to get home and he's like take this, honestly it's fine and gave her money. What a babe! So he last texted me yesterday and I think I'll leave it till the end of the week then I'll see where's he's at. 2
Southern Cal Dude Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Haha wow I wasn't expecting such a range of responses! Ok firstly thanks for all your interesting stories, such a good read! Some of you have given pratical tips, especially about treating him as a normal dude, which is exactly what I did haha. Texting has been all inside jokes. Also do you guys think I'm retarted? Of course I don't want to date him! Just bang him! I just got out of a four yr relationship and this would be the ideal rebound! FYI for those who are assuming I'm a dumb groupie, I actually have an economics degree and work in finance. He's in a heavy metal band which is great because most of the fans are male or ugly/ really young girls. And no I don't just wanna get with him because he's in a band, he had long hair which is totally my thing! Oh and we both like to party... think mind altering substances. He was the nicest dude, like when we were out the front of the club some girl was crying because she didn't have money to get home and he's like take this, honestly it's fine and gave her money. What a babe! So he last texted me yesterday and I think I'll leave it till the end of the week then I'll see where's he's at. All the more reason to push for sex early. You're just going to give it up. I'm sure the ex had to wait. 1
Author sarah1268 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 Um it's called a condom and the pill! Ya know people have sex for recreation right? If I wanted to date him I would totally wait...at least one date haha. But seriously with my ex of four years we had sex on the second date, I honestly don't know why people are all like make them wait for it? If you have an amazing personality that they click with you really think having sex with them is going to stop them wanting to date you? Never understood that logic.... 3
ASG Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 not retarded, but not the best judge of guys either. what do you gain by banging him? a risk of stds and even pregnancy. It's called fun! Look it up! And that's why condoms and the pill were invented! To prevent both those things! OP, I think you have the right attitude. You had fun and expect nothing else. Great! Hope you continue to have fun (with this guy or other guys) until you find your next bf!
Southern Cal Dude Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Um it's called a condom and the pill! Ya know people have sex for recreation right? If I wanted to date him I would totally wait...at least one date haha. But seriously with my ex of four years we had sex on the second date, I honestly don't know why people are all like make them wait for it? If you have an amazing personality that they click with you really think having sex with them is going to stop them wanting to date you? Never understood that logic.... Condoms aren't enough these days. You can avoid the deadly ones, but STD's like herpes, high risk HPV, and chlymidia are passed with or without condoms. Just because others have casual sex doesn't mean it's smart and safe.
somedude81 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Haha wow I wasn't expecting such a range of responses! Ok firstly thanks for all your interesting stories, such a good read! Some of you have given pratical tips, especially about treating him as a normal dude, which is exactly what I did haha. Texting has been all inside jokes. Also do you guys think I'm retarted? Of course I don't want to date him! Just bang him! I just got out of a four yr relationship and this would be the ideal rebound! FYI for those who are assuming I'm a dumb groupie, I actually have an economics degree and work in finance. He's in a heavy metal band which is great because most of the fans are male or ugly/ really young girls. And no I don't just wanna get with him because he's in a band, he had long hair which is totally my thing! Oh and we both like to party... think mind altering substances. He was the nicest dude, like when we were out the front of the club some girl was crying because she didn't have money to get home and he's like take this, honestly it's fine and gave her money. What a babe! So he last texted me yesterday and I think I'll leave it till the end of the week then I'll see where's he's at. Ha ha! Good to see that there is some variety in women. For every girl that needs an emotional connection for sex and treats it as something very special there is another type that just wants to sleep with a dude because he's hot and have it mean nothing. Good luck in your endeavors.
Author sarah1268 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 Next you guys are going to tell me that doing drugs is bad too! Live a little guys. I have a high pressure well paying job and the only way I can justify doing it all at 22 is having a crazy weekend that lets me escape reality. Next minute I'm back in the office thinking about my weekend and my god I love my life haha. Think about it. I think I have found the optimal living mix for my age haha I'll think about family men when I'm 30!
ASG Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 condoms and birth control don't work all the time and don't protect against everything, and you don't know the character of a smooth talking guy after one night. you don't know his personality yet. i believe sex should have meaning, and i'm far from a bible thumper. never understood the logic of girls, or guys, who jump into bed with the most famous/best looking right after meeting them. That is your prerogative! Great! Stick to it! But don't judge other who don't agree and don't share your views. Just like we don't judge your need for sex to have meaning! Condoms and birth control work over 90% of the time. I like those odds! It's about the same as being hit by a car! And I don't stop going out because of it!
Author sarah1268 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 Well I think sky diving is bloody ridiculous. You could actually die! Humans weren't meant to jump out of planes. They were however made to have sex. 1
ASG Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 i take risks. i go to the track and do sports betting. i even have sky dived. but i don't take stupid risks. and sorry those odds get worse and worse every time you have sex with a new random guy. raising a child until 18 is expensive and stds can affect you the rest of your life. college kids and young adults mess up and damn they regret it looking back. maybe you all will by lucky or maybe not. Er... sky diving isn't taking a stupid risk? It's as stupid as having casual sex with protection. It's a CONTROLLED risk. If you don't want to take it, fine. Don't. I have found that in 16 years of having sex I've never had any problems. Most people don't, when they're careful. Also, most STDs are easily treatable and even HIV is more like a chronic disease now than a death sentence and having kids is something I want, so it wouldn't be the end of the world, even if it wasn't in the best of circumstances. why the need to basically mock jma500? Er... did you not notice how he insulted her?
Carenth Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Different strokes for different folks. Whilst I don't agree with everything you say, mostly about drugs but my opinion on that is formed from seeing a number of once brilliant, successful friends fall into pits of addiction and basically ruin their lives all in the search for their next hit. I respect your right to live your life the way you see it.
jma500 Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 As if men wouldn't do the same with their favorite porn star. :rolleyes: Not all men watch porn. I watched one porn movie in my life and it was a boring.
jma500 Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 The problem is, the fact that you prefer a quality woman is inconsequnetial since those women have no interest in you anyway. You aren't wealthy, famous or wildly attractive so it doesn't matter whether you'd date them or not since they wouldn't come near you. Also, no, my biggest thrill isn't that Dave Navarro grabbed my ass. Despite the truth of my statement, I was making a joke. Regardless, it says nothing about me personally though I am quite curious to know just what you think it says? You will have to continue being curious. I won't spell it out for you.
Maleficent Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Er... sky diving isn't taking a stupid risk? It's as stupid as having casual sex with protection. It's a CONTROLLED risk. If you don't want to take it, fine. Don't. I have found that in 16 years of having sex I've never had any problems. Most people don't, when they're careful. Also, most STDs are easily treatable and even HIV is more like a chronic disease now than a death sentence and having kids is something I want, so it wouldn't be the end of the world, even if it wasn't in the best of circumstances. Er... did you not notice how he insulted her? Right. Let's all not worry about STIs so much thanks to todays medecine. One they're all back in full force we can all say woopsies! Don't get me wrong - I'm all for casual protected sex but lowering the dangers if STIs like that is ridiculous
shexy Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 If I had the chance to hook up with Jack Johnson, I would.
jma500 Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 I'll take that as you really have nothing to back your earlier statement up then. It's never a good idea to make baseless accusations. I never accused you of anything. Think whatever you like. I surmised your character from your own writing therefore it cannot be baseless.
Emilia Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Next you guys are going to tell me that doing drugs is bad too! In your previous post you were going on about your education and how smart you are? 4
ASG Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Right. Let's all not worry about STIs so much thanks to todays medecine. One they're all back in full force we can all say woopsies! Don't get me wrong - I'm all for casual protected sex but lowering the dangers if STIs like that is ridiculous Er... I was just saying that, if you practice safe sex, the risks of getting and STD or getting pregnant are minimal! I'm not gonna stop having sex to prevent either of those situations. I'll use condoms and birth control. And if it fails, for whatever reasons, antibiotics are my friend!
BeholdtheMan Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 You do realise these guys do this in every town, right? Im sure she does, but confidence plus fame plus good looks...this is a very hard combination to resist She can now tell her girlfriends she made out with the bassist of so and so band. Look at the thread title, she felt the need to mention the guy was "semi famous"
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