Praying4Peace Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Sarabi, I think that the person who gets the last word just sounds like an idiot talking to empty air that never took the time to respond, because the last word isn't worth it. Silence is the best last word.
Author Sarabi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 Ok, as a BS, I couldn't let this comment go. The woman is devastated that her husband has cheated on her, of course (for some), she will look over/ "supervise" texts, especially sent between you (OW) and him (MM). I don't understand why some OW/M make little digs about things like this. Do you really expect a BS not to "check?" She probably didn't do that during their relationship, but with an affair, things change. Anywho.... KEEP NC, girl! He really sounds like an a** and good on you for trying (and succeeding?) in moving on! I'm sure he'll try to sneak in a few texts/calls... steer clear! FOCUS ON YOU, lady! Good luck Thank you for the advice As for my comment...maybe it was a dig. As I understand it, affair or not, for them this phone supervision was pretty normal(so...I don't know if he has cheated on her before because he always told me that he never had). I can imagine that in a relationship you wouldn't really do this...as far as I know I have heard its not such a positive thing. After an affair things are different for everyone...so for her peace of mind obviously, she might need to do that.
Author Sarabi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 The whole "remind me to do that if I get into a relationship because it must show an extreme, deep, caring love on my side" ALONG with the eye-rolling emoticon made me think it was a dig. That's just my interpretation, is all. Agree- and all I can add is that if/when she gets in a relationship, I honestly hope its not touched by infidelity because that is when that deep caring love is tested- Its fifty fifty isn't it...chances of finding someone and being cheated on I mean or is it higher than that now?
Author Sarabi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 He is done with you, understand that. So, leave him alone. Any attempt now of making contact makes you look bad and also, where's YOUR pride and ego in all this? You should be saying to yourself, "OK, F-U! I'm done. Number deleted. You're dead to me." and just grieve the loss and let go. No more thinking or wondering about him and his wife. Absolutely nothing. Of course...but if you or anyone else can put a timescale on the grieveing to shorten it or cast a spell to make me forget this whole thing then I would be eternally grateful!!! 1
SweetiePie12 Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Its fifty fifty isn't it...chances of finding someone and being cheated on I mean or is it higher than that now? Statistics can be hogwash. I know someone who got all that out of his system and is "ready to settle down" <---- his words.
Author Sarabi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 (edited) Statistics can be hogwash. I know someone who got all that out of his system and is "ready to settle down" <---- his words. Hee hee Anyway guys congratulate me...I figured out how to wipe sim contacts off my phone(of which he was one but because my sim contacts didn't show in phone contacts he could keep showing up without me being able to fully delete him). Can't believe it took me so long to figure that out!!! Edited June 26, 2013 by Sarabi 2
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