frederickkk Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 (edited) I'm not allowed to contact her. Yesterday, I get a phone call off a random number, rustling on the phone, background noise, then i hear her voice, then she says sh*t and puts the phone down. probably did it by accident. went on for 5 minutes. or she did it on purpose to test the fact I can't actually contact her. I'm not going to contact her once. Why is my number in her new phone? If Im history, why keep my number? To make a record of any attempts to contact her? I couldn't care less either way. Worked hard, took risks didn't pay off, but WHY have my number? I know I might have come across as a psycho trying to sort it out. But whatever. Edited June 25, 2013 by frederickkk
omit Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 (edited) some times phones save numbers to sim, old sim new phone. eyther way mate sounds like she phoned you by mistake. its different if she phones knowingly and willingly with something to say other than ****. Wouldn't waste time on it. Don't worry about trying to sort things out, we all have tried. it takes two to fix something. Edited June 25, 2013 by omit
Renard99 Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Without wishing to be rude, but, she maybe keeping your number so as to know not to answer calls from you. You admitted yourself that you were determined to change her mind and kept contacting her for a very long time after the break up. When your phone is telling you who's calling it's much easier to screen your calls. To call you like that was almost certainly a mistake. I had my ex's number still in my phone for a long time after the break up as I was screening my calls. Her name begins with an 'A' so she was right at the top and I very nearly accidentally dialled her a couple of times, especially with the latest touchscreen phones......... it can happen. Think nothing of it. 1
Author frederickkk Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 ours was a strong love. im sick of the drama. im finding it difficult to move on with my life, leave where i am from and go abroad. i cant understand why me and her cant get back together, and if i stay in my area for the summer, when she will be back, i either wait or i leave.
Author frederickkk Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 you know, at 27, after two previous relationships, its pretty hard to let this one go, knowing they are out there, ****ing around. man it does my heart in. ive spent thousands drinking trying to get over it. now i have no choice but to move on. and you know something? If she misses me, she will have to put things in place to do so. I'm no longer an option
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