RDV Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 (edited) I love my ex girlfriend,shes 20 and im 24, and we broke up because of our work/live schedules. It was rough the first few weeks between us..sporadic texting until I finally went NC with her. Blocked Facebook stopped following her on Instagram etc. the next day I put up a picture that was me going out to yardhouse and she stopped following me back on Instagram. After 10 days she starts following me on Instagram again randomly. A few days later she likes a picture I posted of the Jason Maraz song I won't give up (posted before she was following me) and texts me later that day (after 3 weeks NC). She asks how everything is going and she congratulates me on a new job and tells me that her life is going well (new car, job, apt) I say wow that's great to hear and she sends back a kissing emoticon. The conversation wraps up by her saying that "I don't hate you or anything. You know that right?" I responded that I was hoping she didnt and she said nope and that was the end of the conversation. I haven't heard from her in 2 days now. Not sent anything either? Really confused and could use some good advice..especially from a girl's perspective. We've been officially broken up for 7 weeks now. Really confused? Still really love her and I ended the relationship. Edited June 25, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
juicygirl Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 It sounds like she's trying to get you to call her, she doesn't want to call you so instragram/facebook is a safer playground to see if your interested. How long were you together?
athousandquestions Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Sorry.. what exactly are you confused about? YOU ended things. She is probably looking to reconcile or she has moved on entirely. But as the one who called things off, it's your responsibility, if you want to get back together than take steps towards that. If you don't want to get back together than leave it alone entirely and go back to NC.
Author RDV Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 The confusing part is why she would like a photo out of the blue (good song btw) and then text to see how life is only to end it by making me understand she doesn't hate me. The breakup wasnt because I didn't love her it was because I work full time and she was working two jobs and originally planned to replace one job (she hated) with another. However, at the end she keeps all three jobs and the hardest part was that we leave 55 miles apart and only see eachother twice a week (talked everyday via text and phone calls). If we lived within 10 miles of one another there would be no complaint and when I originally brought up my concerns it was met with "I just need you to be understanding."
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