Yulichka93 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 There was a guy i met last summer, i KID YOU NOT, i thought i met the man of my dreams. I'm a successful girl, with an education and i'm on my way to to bigger things as the years go. I've always been attracted to men of the same sort. Goal oriented, educated, classy, etc. I this guy while i was walking out of a club upset because another guy i was with was treating me bad. He caught my eye emediately and (I NEVER DO THIS) but i walked back in and smiled at him, he came over, we started talking/dancing, then went to mcdonalds (since it was 3am & everything was closed) and got some ice cream. He was classy, SOOOOOO handsome i couldn't believe my eyes, drove a porsche 911 (shows that not only he has money to support a woman/family but that he is also successful). The only problem, he lived in Dallas and i live in utah.... I went and visited him after spending a full month, everyday today. We kind of ended things after i came back home.. i ended things with him.. long story short, he was kind of rude while i was there and called me out on something that i didn't see about myself until a lot of time went by. Looking back, what he called me out on was right, and i have changed a lot over the year, so i get told... i keep looking at his pictures, keep looking at OUR pictures and keep wondering what would happen if i flew back there one more time and saw him. Idk if he's want that, haven't talked to him in almost a year. Over that coarse, i met another guy at a club. Fell for him pretty fast. He didn't have money, a fancy car.. nothing. But he was a good man. I'm still with him and am currently helping him reach his educational/professional goals. But the thing is ... i kind of feel worn out helping him all the time. I'm young, i feel bad for saying this, but i want a guy that has money to take me out to dinner & movies, etc. & he doesn't. He barely has time for me..... I don't know what to do, not only did the first man have everything i was looking for, he was SOOO funny & spontaneous, outgoing, caring, romantic, etc! i honestly thought i found "the one".
Teknoe Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 whatever you do, and i won't tell you which guy to be with, but whatever you do, just make sure you practice honor and integrity at all times. meaning, don't see/meet up with your crush 1 on 1 to test the waters. That is disrespectful, disloyal and distasteful. Make sure there is NO OVERLAP. Either you stay committed to your man, or you break it off and go after the old crush. Don't try to live the "one foot in each world" lifestyle. It'll burn you and you might lose BOTH guys in the end. Be honest with yourself, and always display integrity. 2
Author Yulichka93 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 oh trust me, i know. I'm not like that. i have a HUGE conscience 1
Teknoe Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 oh trust me, i know. I'm not like that. i have a HUGE conscience good to hear. even so, even well intentioned people can fall down a slippery slope. i feel the more we talk about it, the less likely it is to happen. i trust you got it in control, but had to throw it out there as a disclaimer 1
ChessPieceFace Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 make sure you practice honor and integrity at all times. You're talking to a woman who is going gaga over material possessions. What a funny statement.
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