sanddollarsunchic Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 What the heck do i need to do to get this guy to open up.. We work together I sense he's into me by his actions and light flirting. A coworker recently asked him, "since your not gonna make a move on her, do you want me to tell her you have a girlfriend". His reaction .. "NO DONT TELL HER THAT. and pretty much bit her head off/yelled at her saying that.. and added that he does not have a girlfriend. wondering why he wanted to make it that clear.. is he really that interested in me but just still too shy? I know he knows i like him. I have a feeling the working together is whats making him nervous about making a move. but dam it its just a retail store. I did give him a birthday card and he did read it right in front of me while he was on the clock.. i wanna give him my number descretely.. any ideas how.. Link to post Share on other sites
Eggplant Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 If he knows you like him, and he's still not making a move, forget it. If he liked you enough, he'd get over his shyness. Link to post Share on other sites
Tinie Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 What eggplant said. There's a guy like that at my work too. He flirts with me (calls me honey, pretty one, blah blah). He doesn't talk to me outside of work or asked my number or shown that he would like to pursue a relationship. So he's not interested. Flirting is what he does because he's single, it's fun and in his words "I can picture myself being single for the rest of my life and being ok with it". This guy is doing nothing to win you over. He probably wanted you to know he was single because you'd stop flirting with him otherwise and he was enjoying your attention. Move on. If that guy was interested, he'd grow some balls and ask you out. He hasn't done that and he probably won't. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sanddollarsunchic Posted June 26, 2013 Author Share Posted June 26, 2013 Just found out he's been in a relationship with a coworker in the past that ended in a nightmare..so im thinkin maybe thats whats making him nervous / shy I hear ya.. but at same time.. if he really wasnt interested would he not care what i thought? Link to post Share on other sites
Tinie Posted June 26, 2013 Share Posted June 26, 2013 That doesn't matter. He's not pursuing you. Not every relationship is going to be like the one with his ex. If he's too immature to realize that, then he's not dateworthy material. Maybe some attraction is there. But he doesn't seem to be doing much about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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