Random Acts Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 My friend of 20 years mya is in relationship of 6 years with another great buddy of mine kevin. Last year she announced she wanted to go travelling (alone) for the year She claimed it was something she needed to do yet she wanted to remain in a relationship with him.. Obviously he was devastated as this was entirely out of the blue however he was mad about her so he agreed.. Leading up to the months before mya left, kevin admitted he had a drunken one night stand.. because he was so upset about her leaving! Eventually they worked through it and she left on her travels and they remained an item (strange I know) They remain in contact everyday and seem more in love with each other than ever! In the meantime while she was away kevin bought a house for the 2 of them back home hoping when she returns they can start a life together she is meant to be due back next month. Yet when she rings me she brags about all the men she's been with even married ones!! and says she has no intention of coming home she seems to have totally gone off the rails and doesn't even sound like the girl I know. Even though he cheated before she left, I can't help but feel sorry on him I see him on a daily basis and he seems so happy- only I know he is wishing his life away with her.. i know her too well and i know she isn't coming home at all! i don't know what to do i can't sleep thinking of it i hate that she's suppose to be my closest friend yet puts me in this perdiciment It's affecting my own relationship, any advice please..thanks!
Balzac Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Apparently she had a very large trust fund. My advice is to stay out of it. Be a support to your buddy when he tells you the facts. Until it happens it's a "she said".
StrongLass Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Your friend sounds VERY selfish o.O I can't imagine doing that to a guy. Honestly? If I were you I'd tell him what she told you..I hear about guys wishing their friends had told them about their SOs cheating ALL the time. If both you and your SO are friends with him you should both be there for him when it all hits the fan.
Author Random Acts Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 Cheer's for the reply guys, it will eventually hit the fan either way.. I'm just debating cutting ties with both of them as selfish as this may sound they have become a physical and emotional drain on my life. At the moment I just feel hard done by, i am losing both friends whatever I choose to do:(
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