NYCGuy22 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 My girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago. Since the breakup, I have done all the obviously wrong things like text, email, call, etc. There was a lot of fighting before the break-up regarding her new choices in life - especially her wanting to go out more. Anyway, to make a long story short, a few of the responses back from her include the words "right now". She says this is how it is right now....She doesn't want me right now....its too late right now. Am I reading into things too much that she keeps using the term "right now" instead of putting finality on things and saying words like "never", "ever", and "forever"?
aloneinaz Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 My girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago. Since the breakup, I have done all the obviously wrong things like text, email, call, etc. There was a lot of fighting before the break-up regarding her new choices in life - especially her wanting to go out more. Anyway, to make a long story short, a few of the responses back from her include the words "right now". She says this is how it is right now....She doesn't want me right now....its too late right now. Am I reading into things too much that she keeps using the term "right now" instead of putting finality on things and saying words like "never", "ever", and "forever"? She's softening the blow by choosing those words. The big rock is she broke up with you. This means she doesn't want you in her life anymore AND is risking losing your forever if you met someone else you liked more. Saying she wanted to go out more is a pretty strong thing, meaning she wants to meet others. You need to go NC and disappear from her life. If you have any chance of her coming back to you, this would be the only way. Most of the time, the decision is final and they don't come back. In the meantime, it allows you to heal from the broken relationship and get your life back on track w/out her. 1
Chi townD Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Yep! Time to move on, dude. You're reading too much into it. Still doesn't change the fact that you're not with her "right now", or even in the future. Time to heal and move on. 1
mahon451 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 (edited) Save yourself some anguish and cut ties "right now." Edited June 24, 2013 by mahon451 1
Bozena Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 yeah she is just leaving an open window if she doesn't find someone better. But please ignore her right now
hinatticus Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 I'll be the douche and give this guy false hope, if that's what he wants. My ex uttered those words many times during our 14 months apart. We're back together now, but I agree with what others have said. Move on and heal yourself. Good luck
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