al123 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Hi All, I have been on the forum lately and thought i would finally signup. I just want some opinions on my situation. About 4 months ago my ex-girlfriends granddad unfortunately passed away. At the time i was there for her everyday as much as i could. But this was only for week or so as i was going away to Hawaii (8000 miles away from home). I was away for 3 weeks, and everyday i tried to Facebook/FaceTime and text to see how she was doing. Every second i could i tried to see if she was ok. While i was over there i found out that she had been speaking to someone else.. and she assured me that she was just been friendly, having a joke with the guy. I also found out when her granddads funeral was, as expected off me i booked a few days of work so i could spend this time with her when i got back. The day i got back we had a small argument over text about money while i was in work.. first argument and it was a misunderstanding. What made if more difficult for me was my 21st birthday was only a few days after, and it was a weird coincidence that it was the same day as her granddads funeral. I think i made all the mistakes the first few days asking for reasons why. But she immediately demanded her stuff back from me.. same day.. she didnt even have the decency to come round my house and collect it herself she wanted me to meet her at "Sainsburys". But the Tuesday night she phoned me up saying sorry and saying that we may get back together in the future. Also on Wednesday (My birthday+Funeral) She said Happy Birthday by text with a lot of X's. Now here is where it gets complicated after this i hadn't really spoke to her much.. I tried giving her some space over the next couple of days as that is what she wanted. Now it gets even worse.. she tells me she is changing her mobile number.. ok fair enough i sent her a few emails asking if we can sort things out.. the next thing i no the police are phoning me up saying i am harassing her. When i wasn't.. At first i thought it wasnt real so i sent on more email 2 days later and they phoned again. Then i found out she was seeing someone else, 1 week after we split. She said that some guy kissed her in a club when i was away. It also appears that they only new each other for a short time. Anyway... i let it go.. 2 months passes and i was away in Berlin, I was talking to one of her friends and she said she was having relationship troubles with her new guy. I didnt ask she said that my ex was doing her head in. So after 2 months i decide to send 2 emails.. one seeing if she was okay and another to see if she wanted to be friends... to my surprise i get a phone call from the police. Now this was 2 weeks ago.. I just like to know what you think could be wrong with her that i was with for 9 months and known for 4 years. She also asked me to move in and said she loved me the morning she said it was over. Sorry if this confusing i just tried to include as much info as possible and i am moving on just curious now. Ive been speaking to new people and have started going to the gym again. Thanks Al
Author al123 Posted June 25, 2013 Author Posted June 25, 2013 Sorry that it is so long. She is also posting on facebook how happy she is yet i no she is having relationship troubles. Could this be a rebound. I am just confused by it all and wondered what if i should expect a apology or anything in the future from her. Thats all i want but doesnt seem like i will ever get one. All my friends and family say its her lose but sometimes i feel like its my fault when there was nothing i could do.
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