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I am Sagittarius and I can be like that :laugh: Also, most Sagittarius people have commitment issues, enjoy freedom and adventure and I totally fit. I had random people guess my star sign correctly.

 

I was rasied Cristian so I never go into astrology but the above applies to me too and guess what sign I am??

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I was rasied Cristian so I never go into astrology but the above applies to me too and guess what sign I am??

 

 

Not Sagittarius? :confused:

 

I know what point you are trying to make.

 

I have seen too many patterns in what signs end up as my friends/lovers (and I only learn of their sign later) to just ignore astrology completely.

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I have seen too many patterns in what signs end up as my friends/lovers (and I only learn of their sign later) to just ignore astrology completely.

 

That's how I feel.

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I am Sagittarius and I can be like that :laugh: Also, most Sagittarius people have commitment issues, enjoy freedom and adventure and I totally fit. I had random people guess my star sign correctly.

 

I would never not date someone because they are a certain sign. But I am curious.

 

Strangely enough, all my exs were Aquarius. They were very charming socially but underneath just not nice people.

 

Scorpios, I had the best sex ever with :cool:

 

Virgos tend to bore me quickly (sorry Who).

 

My closest friends tend to be Libras (I had 3 of them) and my mum is that sign. I get along with them well but never had a Libra bf.

:laugh: Don't be sorry - we have our admirers, thankfully :p

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Not Sagittarius? :confused:

 

I know what point you are trying to make.

 

I have seen too many patterns in what signs end up as my friends/lovers (and I only learn of their sign later) to just ignore astrology completely.

 

Sagittarius.

 

I don't put too much weight into it but when you keep reading things about signs and they're right it makes me wonder.

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BUT, every Aquarian I've known has just been a nightmare to date, for me, a Taurus. If I find out a guy is an Aquarius, he's immediately suspect.

 

So you're looking for something that may not be there because what you're focusing on will become your reality.

 

There are general theories that may be true. To get a more accurate reading you need to an analysis with the information of when you were born, to get a better accuracy you need the time. Then it can become amazingly accurate. But with this generalities it doesn't really mean much.

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Sagittarius.

 

I don't put too much weight into it but when you keep reading things about signs and they're right it makes me wonder.

 

Haha you got me there. I was overly defensive.

 

Are you impulsive as well?

 

That's probably my biggest downfall.

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I don't believe in any of that stuff. All that astrology and psychic stuff is mumbo jumbo to me.

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I don't believe in any of that stuff. All that astrology and psychic stuff is mumbo jumbo to me.

 

So....what's your star sign? :cool:

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So....what's your star sign? :cool:

 

Capricorn. I don't think it matters though.

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Capricorn. I don't think it matters though.

 

The sign that is the most committed to romantic relationships and their partners, and frustrated by those who don't share the same values.

 

Coincidence? I think not!

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Of course I pay attention

Not while dating, before that.....

Just at the phase when I get to know them!

 

Some signs are really really not good for certain girls.....

 

Avoid Ariesssssssssssssss

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Of course I pay attention

Not while dating, before that.....

Just at the phase when I get to know them!

 

Some signs are really really not good for certain girls.....

 

Avoid Ariesssssssssssssss

 

Care to elaborate why? My wife is an Aries. :)

 

Wait...Aries is early April right?

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Of course I pay attention

Not while dating, before that.....

Just at the phase when I get to know them!

 

Some signs are really really not good for certain girls.....

 

Avoid Ariesssssssssssssss

 

*ahem*

 

Care to elaborate why? My wife is an Aries. :)

 

Wait...Aries is early April right?

 

Late March to late April. :)

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I don't put stock in it to the point that it would even slightly discourage me from continuing to get to a know a girl I had a good feeling about. But, I do get a little tripped out by the uncanny accuracy of the astrology I do check out. Like the reading for my day of birth, or even newspaper horoscopes. And I have on occassion read others' to see if it's just a product of vagueness x coincidence (which it may well be), but usually mine is clearly the most appropriate fit for me. I can at least say I "believe" in astrology more than any deity-worshipping religion.

 

And as someone else said, when I read about the compatibility between me and my Aries ex-girl, it basically outlined the situation perfectly. Passionate and frustratingly close to compatible, but a butting of heads in the end.

 

But, all that said, I know people who completely defy the supposed traits of their sign, so I don't see it as anything to swear by.

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*ahem*

 

 

 

Late March to late April. :)

 

Ok...so she's an Aries. I'm still curious to hear what's so bad about Aries women.....

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So what if Susie is born in July and Bob was born in November?

 

Susie entered the world in a hot month. She associates her birthday with the 4th of July (if American) and other activities of summer. Her birthday is far from Christmas. She had her first Christmas at 5 months old.

 

Bob entered the world in a cold month prior a string of even colder months. He associates his birthday with the end of fall, in the midst of school, with anticipation of Christmas (of which his first was only at 1 month old.)

 

There are tons of cyclical yearly effects that we don't consciously notice or think about which could provide a scientifically plausible framework for some of the supposed effects of zodiac sign. Tons of small effects which perhaps lead a person toward some things and mindsets and away from others.

 

How many Aquarius people like the snow more than others? A disproportionate number, in my experience.

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Another thread got me to thinking about this.

 

My gut reaction is, "Uhhh, NO. That's silly."

 

BUT, every Aquarian I've known has just been a nightmare to date, for me, a Taurus. If I find out a guy is an Aquarius, he's immediately suspect.

 

Do you consider a potential date/mate's sign? Have you found any eery validity to astrological (in)compatibility?

 

 

No. But I might pay attention if they feel the need to even bring up astrological sign -- if they do, we are not a match.

 

No, even with complete cocktail effect, I see no similarities. I believe strongly that astrology is 100% crap and weak thinking.

 

My boyfriend has an even worse opionion of astrology and people who believe in it than I do. I should mess with him tomorrow. Honey, the horoscopes say pisces shouldn't be dating aries... I just don't know if we should keep forcing this completely wonderful relationship.

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I was trying to find out the difference between the two.

 

Do men prefer more of Libra girls or Pisces girls ?:)

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I was trying to find out the difference between the two.

 

Do men prefer more of Libra girls or Pisces girls ?:)

I don't give it a single moment's thought for a single moment of my life, just as I don't ever contemplate the improbability of God. So I guess that means I have no preference whatsoever. There are so many other real factors to consider in any event, not the imaginary.

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I don't think there is a way to get him back but even if there was - is it really worth it? This push and pull wouldn't stop once you got together. He has to acknowledge that this mode of behaviour hurts you and likely causes problems for other girls aswell.

 

You being angry was perhaps his way out, a tipping point for him to get more leeway to do what he's doing. Aswell as his shyness, he will likely have problems communicating always.

 

I'm very sorry but this one looks like a deadend.

 

 

I am very curious to understand Virgo men better cause most of the time i see Virgo men getting attracted to me.

 

First Question _ There were times when we would really just enjoy each others company. He would always say I am very happy with my life. The one thing i knew for sure was he would speak something emotional and later tell me " dont get emotional , just listen to me and keep quiet, dont start crying "....

OR he would shout an tell me " dont hurt me ?

 

Second question _ IS it because i abused him very badily ( when i get angry i do become too loud and obnoxious, he once did tell me " you are a very good critic) because of which he doesn't want to be with me anymore ?

 

 

PS- i am sorry for asking too many questions. please bear with me ? i really want to know virgo men better. I again have another virgo guy as my friend/ I just want to be more careful.

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If you are a Libra, a Libra girl will give you safe and steady. If you like more of a roller coaster, go with Pisces (expect rocky times, but the end result is the same). Both are good!

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Taurus girls are the best. Period.

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No one sign is better than the other. We all have our own unique traits, advantages and disadvantages. Every male isn't going to say "Libras are way better than Taurus!" People are attracted to different things.

 

Myself being a Libra, I do see very clear differences between the way I act (flirty, charming, etc) and the way other signs act (aloof, shy, disinterested) when trying to engage in the opposite sex.

 

I have ZERO issues ever landing a guy. I'm naturally outgoing, positive, flirty, and guys love this. I think guys in general like a girl who's going to make them feel good, desired, adored, etc... and that comes very naturally to a flighty air Libra.

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No one sign is better than the other. We all have our own unique traits, advantages and disadvantages. Every male isn't going to say "Libras are way better than Taurus!" People are attracted to different things.

 

Myself being a Libra, I do see very clear differences between the way I act (flirty, charming, etc) and the way other signs act (aloof, shy, disinterested) when trying to engage in the opposite sex.

 

I have ZERO issues ever landing a guy. I'm naturally outgoing, positive, flirty, and guys love this. I think guys in general like a girl who's going to make them feel good, desired, adored, etc... and that comes very naturally to a flighty air Libra.

 

 

I love your answers KatZee:love:, I would like to keep you as my mentor .

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