Star Gazer Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I was with an Aquarius for several years, are signs were NOT compatible. It worked at the time. :laugh: They're so charming and suave! I wish they weren't, but they are!
Divasu Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 They're so charming and suave! I wish they weren't, but they are! Mine was a pain in the rumpus. Haha. He was a good boyfriend though, I was lucky to have him.
thecrucible Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I'm a on-the-cusp Scorpio. I think the description is fairly accurate in describing me. I read somewhere that moon signs are more reliable than sun signs in determining compatibility. Went on a date with this guy recently and typed "Sagittarius men" into google - says that they're hard to pin down and like to play the field. haha Brilliant. Luckily I don't put too much important into this stuff. 1
Star Gazer Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I'm a on-the-cusp Scorpio. I think the description is fairly accurate in describing me. I read somewhere that moon signs are more reliable than sun signs in determining compatibility. Went on a date with this guy recently and typed "Sagittarius men" into google - says that they're hard to pin down and like to play the field. haha Brilliant. Luckily I don't put too much important into this stuff. I wish I could figure out the "enjoys committed, monogamous relationships" sign.
fortyninethousand322 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 For what it's worth, I've been on "some dates". And I did date a girl in college (I think, I mean I don't really know what it is we were). And I only knew the college girl's birthday because I deliberately asked her with the intention on buying her a gift (which I ended up getting for her). Otherwise, all the other dates I went on or even girls I wanted to date, I never knew their birthdays, which means I didn't know their signs either. So, to sum up: I don't pay attention to signs because it's just not something I'd ask until a little far along in the process. If there was a pattern in which signs I wasn't doing well with, I might take note of it, but I certainly wouldn't muck up a perfectly good relationship over it. 1
Star Gazer Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 The subject of the discussion is: Do you consider astrological signs when considering a potential date/mate (e.g., "He's a Cancer! Oooh la la!" or "Oh no! Not another Scorpio!")? And/or have you found any eery coincidences that prove or disprove alleged astrological (in)compatibility in significant others? If you'd like to discuss astrology in the general sense, there's a thread in the WC for that.
Star Gazer Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 For what it's worth, I've been on "some dates". And I did date a girl in college (I think, I mean I don't really know what it is we were). And I only knew the college girl's birthday because I deliberately asked her with the intention on buying her a gift (which I ended up getting for her). Otherwise, all the other dates I went on or even girls I wanted to date, I never knew their birthdays, which means I didn't know their signs either. So, to sum up: I don't pay attention to signs because it's just not something I'd ask until a little far along in the process. If there was a pattern in which signs I wasn't doing well with, I might take note of it, but I certainly wouldn't muck up a perfectly good relationship over it. Thanks for your input, 49. Of course, I wouldn't muck up a perfectly GOOD relationship just because he's an Aquarius. I just doubt the longevity of a Taurus-Aquarius relationship after my own experiences. I guess I just find myself kinda turning a suspicious eye on an A at the beginning, before a relationship is even formed. And if I'm drawn to him (like, insanely drawn to him), but he's no good FOR ME in a relationship, there's a good chance he's an Aquarius. Just something I've noticed, is all.
ThaWholigan Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Well, there was a discussion I was/am currently engaged in during the Astrology thread about signs quincunx in sun sign astrology. The dichtomy we focused on was Virgo/Aries, and it's funny because I tend to have crushes on Aries a lot as a Virgo. Aquarius is also quincunx and I find Aqua girls to be very attractive on an aesthetic level. The signs that have nothing in common can cause the most growth within a relationship, but generally the moon in consideration can change things. Sun in aspect to the other persons Moon can indicate a very powerful union. 2
Star Gazer Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Well, there was a discussion I was/am currently engaged in during the Astrology thread about signs quincunx in sun sign astrology. The dichtomy we focused on was Virgo/Aries, and it's funny because I tend to have crushes on Aries a lot as a Virgo. Aquarius is also quincunx and I find Aqua girls to be very attractive on an aesthetic level. The signs that have nothing in common can cause the most growth within a relationship, but generally the moon in consideration can change things. Sun in aspect to the other persons Moon can indicate a very powerful union. Query: When do you typically learn their sign? Before or after you find yourself crushing/interested/drawn/etc.?
sweetheart5381 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 The stuff about Scorpios is even worse. Typically those who have had bad experiences with Scorpios are scarred so bad they usually end up never dating other ones again. Can't say I blame them. My sign is so intense that one of the signs deemed incompatible for Scorpios are Scorpios. Lol, this is funny and so very true. I'm a Scorpio as well and attempted a relationship with another Scorpio... it did not end well at all . We still see each other everyday in the workplace and the kindest thing we can do for one another is to completely ignore each other. Hell, I don't even think there are hard feelings and I appreciate the fact that it ended with him. I guess we just despise one another now! Am now with a Virgo - time will tell how the pure and innocent mesh with the intensely sexual Scorpio. 2
ThaWholigan Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Thanks for your input, 49. Of course, I wouldn't muck up a perfectly GOOD relationship just because he's an Aquarius. I just doubt the longevity of a Taurus-Aquarius relationship after my own experiences. I guess I just find myself kinda turning a suspicious eye on an A at the beginning, before a relationship is even formed. And if I'm drawn to him (like, insanely drawn to him), but he's no good FOR ME in a relationship, there's a good chance he's an Aquarius. Just something I've noticed, is all. The chart may explain it in more detail, but I offer the explanation that Taurus and Aquarius are the same modality - both are fixed signs, but both are incompatible elements (Taurus being Feminine Fixed Earth and Aquarius being Masculine Fixed Air). As such, you may relate on some level because you both have somewhat fixed natures, but there is that element of unpredictability to Aquarians that Taurus finds grating at times. Capricorns and Virgo are said to be perfect for Taurus but in the same element a relationship can easily grow stale if not careful. I would argue that a sextile or quincunx arrangement is better. Or opposite sign - Scorpio - if you feel like a bit of a challenge . They're pretty loyal usually..... 1
ThaWholigan Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Lol, this is funny and so very true. I'm a Scorpio as well and attempted a relationship with another Scorpio... it did not end well at all . We still see each other everyday in the workplace and the kindest thing we can do for one another is to completely ignore each other. Hell, I don't even think there are hard feelings and I appreciate the fact that it ended with him. I guess we just despise one another now! Am now with a Virgo - time will tell how the pure and innocent mesh with the intensely sexual Scorpio. Apparently they mesh pretty well. I wouldn't mind finding out (Not you, Castle ) 3
Keenly Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I am too logical, even in my own signs description, to buy into this stuff. Even as my sign matches my personality, I still can't buy into something that can't lag socially be explained or proven.
sweetheart5381 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Apparently they mesh pretty well. I wouldn't mind finding out (Not you, Castle ) Lol... just go to your local sex shop, you will find us there 2
Divasu Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Chinese zodiac says cocks shouldn't date each other. 4
ThaWholigan Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Query: When do you typically learn their sign? Before or after you find yourself crushing/interested/drawn/etc.? Usually after. Sometimes I can already guess what sign they are and I'm right marginally more than I am wrong strangely enough.
ThaWholigan Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I read about it more for amusement than anything else--I don't let it dictate who I choose to date or what direction I should take my relationship(s) into. It's interesting to see descriptions of the signs play out, though... I'm an Aries and have always had issues with commitment--I think I recall EasyHeart saying something about how Aries women are the bachelorettes of the zodiac. Lately I've been drawing the Leo guys in; I hadn't realized how romantic (sappy ) they can be. So far, I'm a fan. Most tumultuous relationship was with another Aries (last serious ex); he had a lot of other planets in that sign too. We kept going back to each other for awhile. I definitely wouldn't rule out dating someone just because he was an Aries though. Leos are crazy romantic, almost dramatically so. Both male and female. People with Leo Rising are the same.
aussietigerwolf Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 lol this is mine and my boyfriends. LIBRA and SAGITTARIUS Compatibility Compatibility Home Libra + Sagittarius Air + Fire = Hot Air There’s something really refreshing about the combination of Libra and Sagittarius. There’s an immediate sense of comfort, and easy communication when you come together, and you’ll prove a worthy friend for the wild and outspoken Sagittarian. You have the ability to slowly but surely polish the rough Sagittarian diamond. There are similarities between your signs: most importantly, Sagittarians love variety, change and exploration just as you do. So they’ll be able to provide you with the excitement and diversity that you thrive on, whether you’re mixing with friends or strangers. You might decide to holiday together or go on long walks as a couple — this somehow helps you slip into interesting discussion and emotional sharing. Some Librans and Sagittarians meet each other while they are on holidays, travelling overseas or interstate … or, would you believe, standing at the bus stop! Sagittarius is very interested in travel, which happens to be your third sector of trekking, so this is often a factor in your meeting and developing a friendship. The romantic side of your relationship is interesting. If you can get over the initial shock/horror of their ‘in your face’ attitude to sex, you’ll really enjoy intimacy together. Sagittarius must be careful not to push you too far at first. You are very sensitive and don’t like being taken beyond what you consider good taste. Once you start to relax, though, and to know each other really well, your closeness will move to a deeper level and your satisfaction will increase. Sagittarians born between 23 November and 1 December are probably too pompous for you; even if you do finally start to make a go of a friendship with them, that initial hurdle will not be an easy one to overcome. Still, there’s no harm in trying, and as they say, if at first you don’t succeed try, try again. The best Sagittarians for you are those born between 2 December and 11 December. They are strongly defined by Mars and Aries as well as Sagittarius. They are fighting characters, hot-natured, and tend to be on the go all the time. You’ll need lots of physical energy to keep up with them. Oodles of sport and outdoor activities will suit both of you. You can form great alliances with Sagittarians born between 12 December and 21 December. These people are genuinely caring and sensitive at heart, even though they appear to have rather big egos. Don’t judge them too quickly; if you do, you may miss out on their special brand of love. You can in fact have a great relationship with them. it's not completely right but does have quite a few things right.
Anela Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 They're so charming and suave! I wish they weren't, but they are! One man I really liked, was an Aquarius, but with a Cappy Moon/Mars. He was charming, self-confident, very smart and also really funny - travelled around for school and work. And I discounted myself, because I thought he would expect more out of a woman, than I had to offer at the time. (He's now dating another woman, and is very happy with her - and she is more of what I thought he'd go for.) I did know his sign at the beginning, but didn't think much of it at the time.
Anela Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Oh: I'm an Aries. We aren't supposed to mesh well with Caps, and that certainly plays out with my sister.
MrCastle Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Last summer I went out on a date with a Sagittarius and I remember feeling really unsettled around him. He was very intelligent yet seemed flighty too, flitting from subject to subject really quickly. Apparently Aries and Sag are supposed to mesh well but I wasn't feeling it. Went on a date with a Capricorn once and it just fell totally flat. Pre-date conversation went great but in person? Nope. *Again, wouldn't ever rule anyone out or prefer anyone based on zodiac sign. I had a great connection with a Taurus guy in college (on/off FWB) even though we didn't have that much in common at all. We just hit it off really well and I was a tad obsessed with him for a couple of years. I have Mars in Taurus so that could've had something to do with it, who knows. That one Scorpio...he was very intense, very passionate. There was something beautiful, albeit brief, there. My most stable relationship was with a Libra; we had that best-friends connection, but the 'spark' wasn't totally there for me at the time. Right now I'm happy with my (latest) Leo. I noticed that all the Leos I met have AMAZING hair. A full head of hair on a guy is important to me, so this is good. :cool: 1
shexy Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 I don't really pay any attention to astrological signs
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Last summer I went out on a date with a Sagittarius and I remember feeling really unsettled around him. He was very intelligent yet seemed flighty too, flitting from subject to subject really quickly. Apparently Aries and Sag are supposed to mesh well but I wasn't feeling it. Went on a date with a Capricorn once and it just fell totally flat. Pre-date conversation went great but in person? Nope. *Again, wouldn't ever rule anyone out or prefer anyone based on zodiac sign. I am Sagittarius and I can be like that Also, most Sagittarius people have commitment issues, enjoy freedom and adventure and I totally fit. I had random people guess my star sign correctly. I would never not date someone because they are a certain sign. But I am curious. Strangely enough, all my exs were Aquarius. They were very charming socially but underneath just not nice people. Scorpios, I had the best sex ever with Virgos tend to bore me quickly (sorry Who). My closest friends tend to be Libras (I had 3 of them) and my mum is that sign. I get along with them well but never had a Libra bf. 1
Star Gazer Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Strangely enough, all my exs were Aquarius. They were very charming socially but underneath just not nice people. See!!! 1
Jane2011 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Well, for a while there, I had a string of involvements (about six men total over several years) who were either a Capricorn or a Virgo. I think I am attracted to these two signs in general. However, the two men in my life who have been "crazy about" me (including my current boyfriend) have been Geminis. So while I may be attracted to Caps and Virgos, Geminis love me. 1
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