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Hi Guys,

 

Don't know how to start this, but here goes. I have a female friend I'll call Sam. I have known Sam for about 4yrs we had a bit of a bad patch for about 9months, but now we seem to be getting on really well and seem very close. This is just a friendship thing nothing more, I like to think we are very good friends but sometimes I don't know if I'm going abit over board.

Because I'm a very soft -hearted type of guy, especially with my very close friends be them male or female. I don't have a problem telling my best mate (male) I love him and he's the same with me. Our nick-name for each other is bro. He's an ex rugby guy and I'm an ex boxer by the way.

Anyway I digress. I would go over on a morning and talk to Sam, one day Sam said she had a sore back due to her been very sporty, so I rubbed it for a min or 2. She seemed to like this, saying don't stop, so from that time on I would go over and have a chat and she would ask me to massage her back also her neck & head. Now she doesn't even ask I do it automatically. My male friend thinks I'm going too far and he thinks I look stupid doing this, but I'm not sure if he just wants my attention.This gives fuel to our work-mates who make rude remarks, which we both ignore.

 

Hope all this makes sense. When I'm bored at home I would send my friends some daft soppy txt messages, I have also told Sam I feel the same way about her as I do my rugby friend.

We are both in a relationship she has a boyfriend and I have been happily married for 23 yrs, and am still happy.

So girls am I been too soft and showing my feelings or doesn't this matter.

Many thanks in advance

bebe121

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Originally posted by bebe121

We are both in a relationship she has a boyfriend and I have been happily married for 23 yrs, and am still happy.

bebe121

 

:eek:

 

Hands off, buddy!

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