aliveagain Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 Is this a dating site? I haven't been on your thread for a day or two and it appears by your posts that your single again, did I miss something? By the way, what's wrong with being Italian?
GorillaTheater Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 people argue that it gets harder for women as they get older, as in dating and relationships in terms of attracting somebody, well if women didn't allow themselves to be attracted to older men, then you women wouldn't suffer that pain It must suck to have to sit there, watching while some guy who's almost 51 gets added to Kiwi's contacts. 4
GorillaTheater Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 women have theirselves to blame for this, not men, because women choose to be attracted to significantly older men, if they didn't do that, then dating would get equally harder for both genders as they age Well, I'm just comforted to see that you bear no responsibility vis-a-vis your dating woes. 2
Author sweetkiwi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 women have theirselves to blame for this, not men, because women choose to be attracted to significantly older men, if they didn't do that, then dating would get equally harder for both genders as they age So you chose to be attracted to women who aren't attracted to you ? Ouch buddy, go a bit easy on yourself. I am attracted to maturity, self respect, kindness, an ease of being, beards, and grey hair. Some young guys have these things, but most don't. 1
Author sweetkiwi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 Is this a dating site? I haven't been on your thread for a day or two and it appears by your posts that your single again, did I miss something? By the way, what's wrong with being Italian? I have been single for a month+. I was/am dating a guy that most likely I will stop seeing because of his jealous behaviors. There's nothing "wrong" with being Italian. I have observed and experienced significant cultural differences that honestly are impossible to deal with. Things like the Madonna/whore complex, and extreme jealousy. 2
therhythm Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 well it's a responsibility I hate having to deal with, having to do, but yes, I don't get why maturity is more valuable in men than it is in women, and maybe if the young more fertile women stopped chasing older men, another point i'm trying to say is that then not as much older women would be lonely and single why don't you try to stop crying about the differences between men and women and just accept it is like that? Nothing will change because you keep whining in each post of LS about your lack of capacity of getting laid... If you would put the half of energy that you expend whining on improve yourself you would get laid pretty soon actually.... 4
Author sweetkiwi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 well it's a responsibility I hate having to deal with, having to do, but yes, I don't get why maturity is more valuable in men than it is in women, and maybe if the young more fertile women stopped chasing older men, another point i'm trying to say is that then not as much older women would be lonely and single Ah so since I am fertile I should be having sex with young bucks like yourself? Who says maturity is more valuable in men? Pretty sure it is appreciated in most people, and only by those who are mature themselves. OHHH that's why you don't understand . 6
GorillaTheater Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 (edited) well it's a responsibility I hate having to deal with, having to do, but yes, I don't get why maturity is more valuable in men than it is in women, and maybe if the young more fertile women stopped chasing older men, another point i'm trying to say is that then not as much older women would be lonely and single You're stretching generalities (if that) into universal truths, and it ain't the case. When I got married, I was 21, but you may as well reverse the numerals for all the maturity and savvy I had at the time. Jesus, it was ugly. And all due respect to Kiwi (), but I always had a thing for older women. And all women, frankly. If God forbid my marriage ended, and I eventually got back into the game, I'd likely be dating within a half dozen years of my age. Maturity isn't just sexy on men. Edited June 26, 2013 by GorillaTheater 4
Author sweetkiwi Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 You're stretching generalities (if that) into universal truths, and it ain't the case. When I got married, I was 21, but you may as well reverse the numerals for all the maturity and savvy I had at the time. Jesus, it was ugly. And all due respect to Kiwi (), but I always had a thing for older women. And all women, frankly. If God forbid my marriage ended, and I eventually got back into the game, I'd likely be dating within a half dozen years of my age. Maturity isn't just sexy on men. No problem, I only look like a baby . 2
therhythm Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 well hopefully I don't end up being attracted to women who are younger enough to be my daughter as I get older, hate double-digit age gaps, well okay a woman older than me, fine, but younger? nope One would think that someone who has so much difficulties to get a woman would not be so picky... I guess I should not worry... more for me :bunny: 2
Els Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 You sort of know that someone is beyond hope when they piggyback on a woman's breakup thread to pontificate about how women just have it sooooooooooo much easier.... 4
Robert Z Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 well hopefully I don't end up being attracted to women who are younger enough to be my daughter as I get older, hate double-digit age gaps, well okay a woman older than me, fine, but younger? nope Me too! You know, I'm no expert, but your answers are starting to sound more like excuses than complaints. Could there be some reason that you actually avoid women, such as insecurity?
Roadkill007 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 You sort of know that someone is beyond hope when they piggyback on a woman's breakup thread to pontificate about how women just have it sooooooooooo much easier.... ofc. Didn't you know? It's always about the guy in the end. 1
Anela Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 people argue that it gets harder for women as they get older, as in dating and relationships in terms of attracting somebody, well if women didn't allow themselves to be attracted to older men, then you women wouldn't suffer that pain It is so rare on here, to see a man complaining about young women, being attracted to older men. Normally it's promoted as a way in which men have it better, but you're using this against her? Why?
Emilia Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 well it's a responsibility I hate having to deal with, having to do, but yes, I don't get why maturity is more valuable in men than it is in women, and maybe if the young more fertile women stopped chasing older men, another point i'm trying to say is that then not as much older women would be lonely and single Lonely and single are not age related - I thought you'd been on here long enough to notice 2
will1988 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 I took this interesting psychoanalytical test regarding what type of man would best fit with me and it said a protective sensitive type..... I need to make a trip out of Italy soon to reset my passport, maybe I can meet the legend while I'm at it. So you are having a lay over in DC?
will1988 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Ohh I love rules around resetting passports !!! :bunny: I don't know if I am sensitive but I can definitely try Oh I'm the best at seeming like I'm sensitive, at the right times... however, I have been accused more than once of being cold hearted. lol. I mean I care for others and their well being and am willing to help out or whatever, but deep down unless I really know you I couldn't careless what your plight is. I am sensitive when it comes to a few things... my family, in particular my grandma, my fiance -sometimes-, close friends, my needs/wants, and dogs... I get all teary eyed when I see those abused animal commercials on TV.... only if it is the dogs though, I couldn't careless about cats (sorry cat lovers).
will1988 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 If a person acts promiscuously on the internet and that person uses this medium to regale others with tales of real life promiscuity then their SO has a right to be upset. Even if their SO doesn't know all the details they have a good clue of what is going on after getting to know them since promiscuity pervades that person's lifestyle. Yes, but I am sure Kiwi was upfront about all of her past exploits... as it seems she was. So I don't think there is a problem with her talking about this stuff on the web... at least if i was her ex, bf, fwb, fink buddy...whateves! 1
will1988 Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 @ Gorilla, you should ask her to send you her butt pics in the yoga pants! it was devine!
Ripnet Posted June 27, 2013 Posted June 27, 2013 Exactly. This has been a major factor in my breakups to date. I find it very unfortunate because I'm not concerned about my looks as much as the men I am with seem to be. Sorry but you're also the problem in these relationships since you attract these type of men Remember that you choose to date men. 1
Author sweetkiwi Posted June 27, 2013 Author Posted June 27, 2013 (edited) If a person acts promiscuously on the internet and that person uses this medium to regale others with tales of real life promiscuity then their SO has a right to be upset. Even if their SO doesn't know all the details they have a good clue of what is going on after getting to know them since promiscuity pervades that person's lifestyle. He's not my SO but nice try. And I actually met this man with the explicit purpose, THAT HE WAS 100% AWARE OF, only for sex. The only person who isn't aware of the circumstances is you. Edited June 27, 2013 by sweetkiwi 1
Author sweetkiwi Posted June 27, 2013 Author Posted June 27, 2013 Sorry but you're also the problem in these relationships since you attract these type of men Remember that you choose to date men. Ah yes it takes two to tango, never said it didn't. 1
Ripnet Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 You're missing the point here. Either you are choosing "nice guy" or you are doing something to make them jealous. You can only change yourself not others. When I mean nice guys I mean guys that don't have much self confidence. Men with self confidence wouldn't get jealous over silly things, they have options anyways.
Lani Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 You're missing the point here. Either you are choosing "nice guy" or you are doing something to make them jealous. You can only change yourself not others. When I mean nice guys I mean guys that don't have much self confidence. Men with self confidence wouldn't get jealous over silly things, they have options anyways. There is so much wrong with this post. When it comes to relationships, neither party should have to change who they are. There is someone compatible for everyone, you just need to find them. Changing only leads to more issues down the track. I can't even be bothered with the rest. 2
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