Bunnyrabbit Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I know that we are not supposed to be together and that our marriage span is over. I really think we are both better off without each other. So I can say that in my head this makes sense BUT my HEART aches like someone has died. I've been crying almost every day for month now grieving that we are over. So my question is: even though you know it's for the better. Is it supposed to hurt THIS much and how long did it take you to start feeling better? Also, could you separate your feelings from your head to your heart and realize what was for the better even if it hurt? How do you know the difference of making a mistake or if you're doing the right thing by walking away?
R.C Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 If you can understand something, you can control it. Know that what you are going through now is withdrawal. I won't dive into the whole biology of love, but right now your body is craving the Oxytocin that was present when you and your ex were together. Yes its supposed to hurt, removing yourself from someone you love can be compared to a heroine addict giving up heroine for good. Best thing you can do is find other things to do. There's some truth in the whole saying that to get over someone, get under someone new. But the general idea is get something to take your mind of how your life used to be. Hell who says you can't make it better? Do your really need a man to complete your life? I'm sure you already know the answers to all your questions, you are here for reassurance. Well i'm afraid all you have to do is accept the hard truths sometimes, its going to suck, its going to take awhile, but it will get better. Regards R.c
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