Olerandom Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 My wife of 8 years told me over the phone that she will be leaving me by this November. This is out of the blue and I am hurting very bad. I am scared of being without her.
eleve82 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Over the phone? Is she overseas? why would she wait until November to leave you? Sorry I don't mean to be insensitive to your pain - I'm just trying to understand the context of the story
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Im sorry to hear that, I don't know details of your marriage, but I hope you have no children, that will make No Contact impossible. I know this is very painful for you. I don't understand why she would tell you her November plans, only leads me to think she's tying up loose (read: legal) ends. I'm going to give you a very harsh reality check now: AT THIS VERY MOMENT SHE IS NO LONGER YOUR FRIEND! YOU MUST NOW LOOK AT HER AS YOUR EMEMY WHO WILL STOP AT NOTHING TO CUT YOUR THROAT!! Don't believe me? Ask around at divorced people. My FIRST advice to you (even though I know this isn't where your head is at-yet). Is to find a good, proven attorney. Very cold of her to give you this news over the phone, and in november? Wtf?
BeholdtheMan Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 My wife of 8 years told me over the phone that she will be leaving me by this November. This is out of the blue and I am hurting very bad. I am scared of being without her.Whatever you do, don't be a doormat You want her back? Let her have her way. Go no contact. Show her that you respect yourself and that you can live your life without her. This might actually shock her and force her to reevaluate your strength as a man. If you act all weak and needy, it will only confirm to her that you're a doormat I also think she's probably cheating. She's found someone who is better than you (in her eyes). I wouldn't stay with a cheater.
Author Olerandom Posted June 24, 2013 Author Posted June 24, 2013 Thank you all for reply. She is out of town with her mom. I don't understand the November thing myself. We do not have any children. We just moved into our dream home 8 months ago. I have always givin her everything and been completely dedicated. I'm very confused now and not sure how to go into detail. It has all gone bad when we got the house. I said I was going to work on it 100 percent and I have. We have gotten snippy with each other latly but I had no clue it was this bad
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