BustedUpInside Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 So I have a pretty bad cold the last couple of days. I haven't been sick for awhile and i don't get sick very often, so it is always hard and I always act like a total baby. When my ex and I were together he would take care of me. He didn't do a very good job, but he tried and that made all the difference. Now, I basically have to take care of myself. That is not entirely true. There are people in my life that care and really try to make me feel better but it is just not the same. I miss my best friend. I am having a lot of problems right now and I am stressed out about almost everything. Only, I don't really have anyone to talk to. I used to talk to him about everything, but now he is gone. I just feel more alone when I don't feel good. I am sure this will pass too, but it just hurts more the past couple of days and no one seems to get it. People are starting to act like I am taking too long to get over things. No one is giving me good advice. I just want my friend back. I miss the closeness.
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I think you're just having one of those little "roller coaster" moments:( I miss the EXACT same things with my ex. She was my best friend, and no one to this day can touch that, or even come close. Seems we just aren't ready yet, and you're MORE than entitled to still feel this way! I sure as hell do, and its been more than a year for me! It probably doesn't help that you've got a cold, just makes everything feel worse. We ALL miss that closeness we once had with our ex's. You really aren't alone, and no one here will ever tell you that you should be over this we know your pain, and just like you're here for us, we're here for you. YOU give great advice, start listening to yourself, BustedUp I'm looking up at the giant moon again tonight, and going down that same melancholy road. This feeling is temporary, and you know it. Hope you feel better! 3
Debbie2508 Posted June 25, 2013 Posted June 25, 2013 Hope you're feeling a bit better now,Busted. Like bhs said above, you always give great advice to others, myself included, so try not to get too down. It's always worse when we feel poorly or tired, or lots of little things go wrong at once. We just want the one person that used to make everything alright , but they're no longer there. As for people thinking you should be getting over it, take no notice....it takes as long as it takes. You don't go from loving someone with all your heart, to being "over"them,in a short time. It's been 6 months for me, and I've only seen improvement in the last 2 weeks. Chin up, we're all rooting for you 2
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