swandive83 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Is it still considered breadcrumbs if they ask to meet up in person to talk? In a public place, so no chance for anything to happen?
hoping2heal Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 It's hard to tell without any context or back story. Just because there's no chance for something physical to happen doesn't mean a discussion about getting back together couldn't happen. Again, no backstory so it's really hard to know. How long were you apart? Do they have a history of this? etc. Hard to know
LinkWorshiper Posted June 29, 2013 Posted June 29, 2013 Might depend on the person. In my situation, I was under the impression we were taking baby steps and rebuilding from the ground up. We were hanging out about once a week or so for dinner or drinks, and I really felt like things were getting better to a point where he was seriously flirting with me! But he recently did a 180 and said he met someone he might maybe consider pursuing, and all that stuff seemed to just vaporize overnight. TO BE FAIR, I am like 80% sure my man just doesn't even know what the hell he wants, which explains his all-over-the-place behavior, but I guess what I'm trying to say is BE CAREFUL. It could just be confusion or genuine interest in fixing things or a million other things... you just sort of have to play the cards you get dealt. In my case, I decided to put my foot down, say that until he figured out what he wanted, we shouldn't see each other for a bit, and it sucks... but I think it's the best way for all this to shake out and force his brain to sort its stupid self out! 1
crederer Posted July 4, 2013 Posted July 4, 2013 It might be but you wont know unless you do. Just don't get hopes up too high.
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