hellischrome Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 does this make sense? As I posted in general, this is what my BF told me. He is starting a therapy with a psychologist today, and he said he is really scared to find out that at the end of the path he will just realise he doesn't wanna stay with me anymore. My bff says in her opinion he already think that, and he is just trying to communicate that to me without feeling guilty. What do you guys think?
Author hellischrome Posted June 24, 2013 Author Posted June 24, 2013 Yeah but things are not always easy, don't you think? If it was - I want to stay with you, that's it - , life would be muuuuch easier. But personal circumstances exist in life, and that can affect relationships. Having said that, he is still with me...
Author hellischrome Posted June 24, 2013 Author Posted June 24, 2013 Sorry for the double post but I forgot to mention that he is going through hell at work and was forced to find a new one as he would burst in tears for how stressed he was.
GilianaK Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 Yeah but things are not always easy, don't you think? If it was - I want to stay with you, that's it - , life would be muuuuch easier. But personal circumstances exist in life, and that can affect relationships. Having said that, he is still with me... The fact that he is still with you doesn't matter in terms of the long run. I agree with your BFF. He could at any moment end the relationship. I would find it hard to relax after what he said originally. The fact that he is still with you does not cancel out what he said originally.
bluegreen Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 That's just how I felt before my relationship ended I loved him and hated thought of him being with someone else but also hated to admit I don't really wanna stay anymore either. You will need a major effort to save what can be saved or miracle either one or both will be needed and those words did make perfect sense just so you know.
flitzanu Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 does this make sense? As I posted in general, this is what my BF told me. He is starting a therapy with a psychologist today, and he said he is really scared to find out that at the end of the path he will just realise he doesn't wanna stay with me anymore. My bff says in her opinion he already think that, and he is just trying to communicate that to me without feeling guilty. What do you guys think? that says to me, "i'm afraid (...to tell you that i've...) realize(-d) that i don't want to stay with you".
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