python23 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 (edited) Hello, if you read this thank you for your time. Il try and keep this short. I've been with my gf now for 3 months. I've known this girl for 2 years. We work together and we were together for 3 months but she ended it in October because she wasn't feeling it apparently. Anyway. I was heart broken for 6 months she didn't seem to care. I heard off her boss that she had been seeing someone else but denies this. She used to text me sometimes. Just to keep my hanging really and to keep herself in my thoughts. Even though she never really left. I started seeing a friend of mine a few times. She has been a friend for years and she used to give me advice on girls and just generally be a mate. I used to stay over at hers in a separate bed of course and then go straight to work after. My ex would see me in my normal clothes and she knew I had been somewhere else. So she started talking to me. Messaging me a lot anyway I saw her out in town. I'm mates with her uncle an brother so I was bound to see her eventually. She said she wanted to talk to me so the day after we arranged to talk. Things went from there. She apologised for messing me bout and that no one has treated her better. I was so cautious and i still am. We dated a few times then we slept together again. This was 4 months ago and we are now back together. I am still very wary about this girl because she broke me inside. I've never felt so bad but on the other hand no one has made me as happy like she has. She's changed since last time in many ways. She tells me how Happy she is. She's bought me a few things. I've bought her flowers and things which she loves. She introduces me as her bf to everyone and I've met all her family and friends and we hang out a lot. But she has the same old ways at times. She can be so moody and really talk to me like ****. I tel her its out of order and she usually says how sorry She is and that it's her and nothing to do with me. Sometimes she thinks is ok to drop me half hour before I'm due to pick her up and tells me she will ring me when she wants me to set off. Now it's a Saturday night. I'm not waiting about for anyone and I told her this. 95% of the time she's great though. She knows I talk to my friend Charlotte but she doesn't like It. I told her when we started dating again that Charlotte and other people didn't like the way she treated me. She hates this and constantly tells me to never mention her to Charlotte again and never ask for advice about the two of us. The point I'm trying to get to is the fact that she still doesn't want to be seen with me in certain places. If we go for meals she insists that we go o of town incase we see her ex or his family and people start talking about her. When ever pictures are taken of us. She never posts them on Facebook. Always keeps them on her phone but posts the pictures of her and her friends and brothers. I'm never on any. Last weekend I surprised her with roses and she loved them. Went off showing them off to her friends and was boasting how perfect her boyfriend was. That night she posted herself as in a relationship and I was happy about this. A lot of the doubt disappeared. But 24 hours later she removed thus and set her relationship status to hidden. Now I know anything on fb isn't really important but when someone does this. To the boyfriend it becomes a bit of a big deal. She still hasn't given me a reason and just says she wanted to hide it. I'm not really as happy as I would like at the moment because I really don't trust this girl. She tells me all the things she wants to do with me in the future and we were even planning on saving up in a joint bank account to get our own place in my town. She tells me she wants to be with me all her life and that she loves me so much. She tells me all the time she loves me and I truly love her too. But the little things like I've mentioned do my head in. Why is she hiding me? Who is she hiding me from? It really doesn't help me when she does these little things. Deep down I'm not happy because all I can think about Is her leaving me again and breaking my heart again. I am stronger mentally though this time and when steps out of line I let her know. Should I take my time with this and ride it out or should I walk? Last time I could never picture dumping her but this time I can. Things are so much better than last year but she still fills my head with doubt. Most of my mates tell me this girl is taking me for a mug and it will end exactly like last time :/. But i love her so much. Any Advice would be appreciated. Edited June 23, 2013 by python23
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