starlet86 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 So my ex contacted me to tell me that the deal he was working on (see previous posts) is about to complete this week and he is so happy and he couldn't have done it without my help. (I loaned him the rest of the money he needed to complete.) We were meant to meet today to discuss stuff, but it seems it has been side tracked by this. He didn't even mention it. I asked if we were still meeting, no reply. I actually thought he would be decent. He is getting his dream because of mine and he can't even follow through on our plans. I don't know why it is hurting. He didn't expect to complete this week, so I guess he was making these plans as a way of keeping me on side in case he needed any more funding from me. I now highly doubt he ever intended to follow through. I wish I could be happy for him. I feel terrible that I don't, but I just can't. I have been a fool and it is all my own fault. He told me he wanted to sort things, but he needed this in place before we could start. Now he knows this is done, he's bailing. I wasn't expecting a grand gesture where he got all this and we'd be back together. We are nowhere near that happening as so much has happened it would be ridiculous to jump the gun and do that. Keeping our plans would have been a good start though and a nice thank you. I feel crushed. I just want to cry and the worst part is, I brought it all on myself.
Hopeinme Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 So sorry to hear about that. I would be very crushed and angry if I were you too. He sounds like he is taking advantage of you! I think you should stop funding him anymore money and go nc with him. Delete him from your life and start healing! Work on yourself and forget about him. It will take a while before it is okie. You will be fine xxx
for666 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 it's not easy opening you'r self up like this be strong you Wude not know him until you didn't trust him and open you'r heart for a hit or love now you know the person, the mask is off and from what you describe its ugly be strong and stop contact whit him ,make clear you want your money back and Tell him to GET the f off your life after it people like this are Manipulative users and they don't know how to give love only take love you want a real love and not what you describe , its pain-full yes!! but how else will you know if you not open up yourself for a hit? (don't blame your self) now the hit is done and you need to be strong and survive it whit pride!and dignity and the best way is to walk away from Darkness into the Light where new beginnings await
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