markhe Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 2 months post BU. 4 1/2 years loved her to death! Raised her daughter as my own! Really struggled with this one a lot of crying, pain, misery, hopelessness. Never thought I'd meet anyone like her ever again. 2 months later I get hit up by girl at bar start talking she was with her sister. Suoer hot, super cool a lot of common interests likes to work out which my ex never did. We hit it off immediately! It's out there when you least expect it! I'm feeling so much better! Of course I still think about her but she had a lot of bad traits I dont like. We've veen NC for three weeksand will ignore her when she calls again. Moral of story there's life after a BU stay strong keep hope alive and take care of yourself it will happen when you least expect it! 7
groupergirl Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 Well it has been 1 month today, I just moved my things from his house. He never did love me, he was seeing someone and emotionally gone weeks ago. I have been hurting like I have never hurt. No contact thing does not work for him because he truly wants no contact - treats me as though I am a piece of dirt. My mom said because he feels guilty or he just does not feel anything for me. I do know that I am ready to move on - I do know that I want to feel better, my job is going very well and that makes me happy but I am so ready to feel great again and only hope get where you are soon.
Pisces13 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 People don't believe it, but it really is true. I've already told my story from earlier last week in another post that served to me as a reminder that things will get better, and I've felt so much better ever since. Also on Saturday night I was catching the train in to the City, and this girl got on the train and sat across from me. She looked almost identical to Emma Watson. We got to talking a bit on the train though, and I asked her for her number, spent most of Sunday texting each other. She seems really cool though, just the kind of girl I like and I think there was definitely a connection there. She's the first girl since the breakup (3 months now) that I've asked for her number though, so I know she is special! 1
groupergirl Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 I do feel better in that I have moved my things. I do feel better because my stuff is in one place, I am back at my moms. I could move to a place of my own, but I really do not like living a lone and my mom is super cool. She needs me as well. In another thread they state 2 reasons people break up - #1 they don't like you. Mostly they will leave the relationship and live alone. #2 They think they are trading up. Yes, my ex has a new girl and has in his mind, traded up. What he doesn't understand is he is making a big mistake because he really does not know. I am ready to forgive myself: I should have never allowed anyone to treat me the way he did. IT WAS MY FAULT. I am glad it is over. I look back and think, I really didn't want to spend the rest of my life with him, he is just not my type. But why did I let him treat me so bad? Why did I let him treat me badly and why didn't I have the guts to leave?
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