KansasChica Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago- he is the one that ended it. He didn't really give me a reason why, but I assume it was because I was his first serious relationship- even in his late twenties. I loved him deeply and was seriously hurt for a long time after that. We haven't had that much contact since, but have many mutual friends. I've seen him the past two weekends and I realized that I don't really feel anything for him anymore. But I'm getting annoyed that every time I try to say anything to him about anything, he always brings up faults with myself and things I did wrong in the relationship, especially when he's drinking. I did care about this person at one time and it's been over a year since he ended it. I don't understand why he does this.
JustAReformedGirl Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago- he is the one that ended it. He didn't really give me a reason why, but I assume it was because I was his first serious relationship- even in his late twenties. I loved him deeply and was seriously hurt for a long time after that. We haven't had that much contact since, but have many mutual friends. I've seen him the past two weekends and I realized that I don't really feel anything for him anymore. But I'm getting annoyed that every time I try to say anything to him about anything, he always brings up faults with myself and things I did wrong in the relationship, especially when he's drinking. I did care about this person at one time and it's been over a year since he ended it. I don't understand why he does this. Confront him; he's being childish, and since he broke up with you, and more than a year has passed, he has no reason to continue his behaviour. After that, I'd go NC, entirely. He doesn't deserve your attention, or your time. When he's hanging out with your mutual friends, make it a point not to be there, or to flat-out ignore everything he says. He's being immature; I have no doubt it's brought on by his own insecurities. Don't let him have anymore power over you. 1
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