ginastar Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 what does it mean when a guy who has a gf will cheat when presented the opportunity, but does not look for potential hook ups, etc?
Author ginastar Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 haha i know that, but what does it mean for the gf? and does that mean he can be faithful in the future to that girl?
KatZee Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 haha i know that, but what does it mean for the gf? and does that mean he can be faithful in the future to that girl? It means the girl is going to be played and hurt in the long run. A guy will always have the opportunity to cheat. There are plenty of women willing to throw themselves at guys, and if he flat out said he would cheat if he had the opportunity, it's pretty much a guarantee he will cheat on you.
NJtoDC Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 what does it mean when a guy who has a gf will cheat when presented the opportunity, but does not look for potential hook ups, etc? Did your BF say this to you?
Author ginastar Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 no my bf didnt say this to me. its someone i know who would cheat (behind the gfs back), she doesnt know. i was wondering what guys think bc some guys say they can love a woman and cheat on her? ? is that true? is this guy keeping this girl around bc eventually he will marry her?
NJtoDC Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 no my bf didnt say this to me. its someone i know who would cheat (behind the gfs back), she doesnt know. i was wondering what guys think bc some guys say they can love a woman and cheat on her? ? is that true? is this guy keeping this girl around bc eventually he will marry her? Any person who can say (not even in the heat of the moment of temptation) that they would cheat given the chance does not love their SO. Lust after, perhaps. Want to have their cake and eat it too? Sure. But perhaps we should define love.
Keke1 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 no my bf didnt say this to me. its someone i know who would cheat (behind the gfs back), she doesnt know. i was wondering what guys think bc some guys say they can love a woman and cheat on her? ? is that true? is this guy keeping this girl around bc eventually he will marry her? He wants both of you. He threw the trap will you get caught in it is the question.
Author ginastar Posted June 24, 2013 Author Posted June 24, 2013 right so the guy can totally end up marrying the girl he has dated but cheated on?
SweetiePie12 Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 There are plenty of women willing to throw themselves at guys You sound like someone who has been cheated on. (If so, I'm sorry about that.). But I must say: women don't always "throw" themselves at guys, LOL. Sounds painful metaphorically as well as literally. In my case, I did NOT want to get involved, but, ...he is simply impossible to resist.
BradJacobs Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 right so the guy can totally end up marrying the girl he has dated but cheated on? Sure and, more than likely, he'll cheat on her again. If she's too dense to notice the first time around and she's willing to marry him, why wouldn't he do it again?
carhill Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 what does it mean when a guy who has a gf will cheat when presented the opportunity, but does not look for potential hook ups, etc? IMO, it means he's an opportunist with unhealthy boundaries for exclusive and monogamous relationships.
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