Hwahve Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 Hey love shakers! I'm new to the forums & I've never used one for relationships before but looks like some great advice comes out of here & I was looking for some help. I am sorry if my story is too long. My story is; I'm 18 & I havnt had a relationship before. Havnt heard that one before right? That's nothing new & it never really bothered me much. growing up in a small town in WY doesn't give a person alot of options either so wasn't to concerned. I've had things & I've had sexual encounters before & I'm not too terrible at that but it doesn't do much for me. I'm into having someone to care about.. But it's never happened for me. I went through the jerk/ignoring stage & attracted nobody. I don't believe jerks actually attract women better than wholesome guys but I may be wrong? But I tried that I tried the friends first & well everything really. I went through a big change in my life & now headed off to college I am pretty happy with where I am & how I connect with people & even girls. I am great with strangers & very personable & I keep friends close. But girls never seem to want more of me. I meet them or start talking to them for the first time & I'm nice & not hung up on sexy bodies. I have a life of my own, I work over 50 hrs a week & I'm funny big on sense of humor. 6'4 205 lbs no fat blonde hair work out 5 days a week. I feel like I'm decent looking. I'm not sex crazy & I always pay for dinners. I don't overflatter girls & I keep my distance In that sense. And I'm exciting at the fun stuff also & all these things are things girls & other people have told me so I dont think im blowing smoke atleast for those features. I really am not sure why girls never want 'more' or seem interested in me. I am not in a crazy hurry for love but what do I need to change up to get those pretty things to give me a shot? I would love to start something in college. Any help would be awesome.
white Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 You are only 18. I wouldn't worry about it right now. You sound like a good man, you haven't listed a load of negative or misogynistic nonsense like some guys about why you're single. Keep on being you and at some point someone will notice, and you'll notice them notice. The only thing I might say is that with 50 hour work weeks, college and a gym habit, I'm not reading much about a social life here. You can't expect to meet women if you don't go out into the world to do so. You can't win the lottery without buying a ticket. College is not on its own actually very good for meeting people, since you're all there to attend lectures and write assessments -can't flirt with someone in class. You need to create opportunities besides that.
Author Hwahve Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 Cool so just get in more social situations around girls I could be more interested In, thanks
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