ssd360 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 So I just got back from a date met this girl at the bank and while I was there she gave her phone number on a slip of paper. I called her the next day(today) and I met her for dinner. I live near a river so we ate at a nice restaurant and walked on the boardwalk/beach. We kissed at the end of the date and she said text me later. I've been on 4 dates in the last 6 months or so and this girl is different and I actually want to pursue a relationship with her. So with that said when should i text or call her and ask her out again? I don't want to screw this up thanks!!
PogoStick Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 Well next time secure the second date before you finish the 1st! For sure follow up ASAP just to tell her you had a good time. Have something in mind, anything, and just ask her out again! Hey, there's a wine tasting Friday night... 1
Star Gazer Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 I love great first dates! Text her right now and tell her what a great time you had. Call her in the next day or two, and set up the next date. And then before that next date ends, set up the third. Rinse, repeat. Have fun!
Author ssd360 Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 I love great first dates! Text her right now and tell her what a great time you had. Call her in the next day or two, and set up the next date. And then before that next date ends, set up the third. Rinse, repeat. Have fun! ^ ok I didn't exactly that I texted her I havn't got a reply yet. The date was over at 6pm I texted at 10pm. Its been over 12 hours and counting. Its weird everything seemed to go great it always feels like the girl I want to be with the most seems to just ignore me idk maybe im over reacting we will see how it goes..
Author ssd360 Posted June 26, 2013 Author Posted June 26, 2013 So I texted her the next day and she replied once and I asked her out to do something fun go karting then go for a drink or something after and she responded with I am too busy this week and next week I am out of town?? all of a sudden just too busy for me but when I asked her out she instantly made time...
MidwestUSA Posted June 26, 2013 Posted June 26, 2013 So I texted her the next day and she replied once and I asked her out to do something fun go karting then go for a drink or something after and she responded with I am too busy this week and next week I am out of town?? all of a sudden just too busy for me but when I asked her out she instantly made time... That doesn't sound promising, sorry. Like Pogo said, ALWAYS firm up a second date just before the first one is over. I was mightily impressed the first time a guy did this with me (although he did turn out to be a douche, LOL)
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