Nicoleiia Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I've been with my bf for 6 months and I can't stand him. I keep breaking up with him and he won't take no for an answer. I don't know what to do anymore. help! He keeps calling. He won't stop.. yikes!
Mws Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 change your number, its only been 6 months and hes like that. Bad sign 1
Author Nicoleiia Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 lol I can't change my number. I changed my number last year on account of the ex i had before. I sure know how to pick 'em.
JustAReformedGirl Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 Tell him if he doesn't cease trying to get in contact with you, you'll file for a restraining order. The threat alone, might do the trick. If he still persists, file for a restraining order for real. It's insane that he's not getting the message. :/
Author Nicoleiia Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 He calls ALL the time and he'll show up at my house randomly. I said I would call the police, and he said that doesn't scare him. I'm thinking about just buying a gun, seriously. But in the meantime, I guess I will just ignore ALL of his attempts. I really hate this guy now. He's a scumbag.
JustAReformedGirl Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 He says that doesn't scare him because he's trying to psyche you out. Act on it, and I'm pretty sure he'll be singing a different tune...from the back of a police cruiser.
Author Nicoleiia Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 I just didn't want it to get that far. Life seems so unfair. My ex before him was great and I got dumped. Now, I'm with a creep and he won't go. He has a horrific criminal record. One phone call to the police will send him to prison forever probably. I don't wanna do that to him. At the same time, I'm trying to get rid of him and he won't take no for an answer. This is really stressing me out.
JustAReformedGirl Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 If he's not getting the message, even after you threatened with cops, it's not you doing it to him; he's doing it to himself. Threaten him again, one more time. Say, "I'm done, and if you keep bothering me, I'm calling the cops. Now, is this really worth you going to jail for a long time?" If it doesn't work, act on it. Seriously, he's bringing the house down on himself. No one else is holding the dynamite, but him.
na49 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 I'm pretty sure if the police ACTUALLY showed up, he'd piss his pants.
hotpotato Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 keep a log of every incident. It will be very handy if/when you want to report him to the cops. I think you should tell the cops. How long before his behavior escalates?
Sneaky Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 If he shows up again, do call the police. You warned him and this is seriously not acceptable of him. Buying a gun is not a solution, but calling the authorities after you have made it as clear as this definitely is.
Mws Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 I feel for you, that **** is ****ed up you cant just show up at a persons house randomly after you are split. On good terms that would be creepy. On bad terms i could only imagine how you feel when he does show up. Good luck to you, hope that things dont escalate any further.
Author Nicoleiia Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 Thanks for the suggestions everyone. He continues to call me, and I am ignoring him. And if he shows up at my house again, im calling the police..simple as that. He is very verbally abusive. I really need to get rid of him asap.
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