SiaLv82 Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 The beginning of this past week I receive a text from a guy that I basically had NC for the last month due to his commitment issues. He understands my schedule and that typically week days are and have always been a no. So he asks on Tuesday again and I don't get back to him until Thursday. I held off honestly because I was so taken back by the fact that he even wrote me at all. One month earlier things were starting to get serious. I was spending nights and it was starting to lean towards being an actual relationship rather than the casualness we had kept for the last few months. Well, he was honest with me one night about still having feelings for another girl and told me basically he need a month or two to get over it and then to go from there. I was at a stage in my life at that point were i really wanted something serious and just told him to stop talking/texting me. He didn't...until this past week...to hang out...three weeks later. Well I updated my online profile this past week and finally paid for a subscription. He has kept his all along. I go on today and realize he must have blocked me this morning. He also did not call since Thursday and I was hoping he would --as weekends are the only time I can get together. I am thinking he did this because he realized I am back on a dating site and is upset. Am I right? I feel bad to be honest enough to say that it did for a moment put a grin on my face. he hurt me incredibly and this past month has been hell...I forgot what detachment from someone you truly had feelings for felt like...gosh it is maddening! I know this is for the best because this has all been immature at best since the beginning. And the reasoning behind stalling due to another girl would always be a poor trigger point for me going forward...hence we just would never work out. I'd always be worried I just was not good enough and second best. So for the males out there...why would you ask to hang out twice and then three days later block the person on some dating site.
Frank13 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 So for the males out there...why would you ask to hang out twice and then three days later block the person on some dating site. Because of the delay in getting back to me. People make time for those things that are important to them. You showed him that he isn't. His ego was kicked in the gut and he doesn't want that anymore so blocked you. 1
chaychay Posted June 24, 2013 Posted June 24, 2013 no I know how you feel and im really annoyed at it. he came back. wanted me back and then he just disappeared out of the blue. I really feel like kicking him into nextweek. Im so hurt. I don't know what I can say to you but trust me I know exactly how you feel,
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