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Um she is lying to you. She didn't have a second date. She just wanted to see your reaction and see how much it would bother you. She wants to make sure you like her as much as she likes you.

 

I think lol

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Um she is lying to you. She didn't have a second date. She just wanted to see your reaction and see how much it would bother you. She wants to make sure you like her as much as she likes you.

 

I think lol

 

no i think u're right.. u're about the 3rd or 4th person that tells me the same thing. i guess she just wanted to see if i can man up and say no u're not going with that guy you're my girl now so u better not.. i mean i don'tknow what to think.. seriously even when the date finished she was telling me she really liked me and wouldn't let me go of her arms... i don' tknow understand the whole i don't wanna hang out type of thing. i don't know if should reacted to it or not.. i guess that makes me a wimp. i do remember her saying something about her resceiving an email from a guy and she thought the guy sounded insecure and not confident. wonder if she was doing the same to me. i don't know. i'm so mad right now. ughh i really liked this girl. :(

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no i think u're right.. u're about the 3rd or 4th person that tells me the same thing. i guess she just wanted to see if i can man up and say no u're not going with that guy you're my girl now so u better not.. i mean i don'tknow what to think.. seriously even when the date finished she was telling me she really liked me and wouldn't let me go of her arms... i don' tknow understand the whole i don't wanna hang out type of thing. i don't know if should reacted to it or not.. i guess that makes me a wimp. i do remember her saying something about her resceiving an email from a guy and she thought the guy sounded insecure and not confident. wonder if she was doing the same to me. i don't know. i'm so mad right now. ughh i really liked this girl. :(

 

Mmmm I would not assume that she has not a second date because she has told you she has one... that is nonsense logic!

 

You need to work with the actual info you have and she has told you she has one date with another guy.

You guys are not exclusive so she can do that but while she is in her right to go with another guy you are in your right to don't like it and just move on!

If you really have strong feelings against her going to another date you should tell her and if she does then move on...

 

Life is full of choices and communicating about things you are not comfortable with is one of the most important ones you will need to take... if you don't communicate about this (also a choice) then you can't complain she is dating another guy.

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I wouldn't put up with this. I'd use her as a piece of a*s at best after a girl telling me this.

 

If I'm going to get seriously involved with a girl, she's kissing and doing whatever else with me and me only. And I'm doing the same with her... No bits on the side :sick:

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