Kimxoxo Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 (edited) What should I do he hasn't texted me since he implied we should have sex this was basically our conversation I don't know if I'm imagining things or did he really imply that we should have sex. First he said I'm going to take a shower I'll text you when I'm done and I said ok then he texted me saying I'm done and I was like oh ok and he said I'm fast but I'm not fast at everything so I was wondering what does he mean and then I figured out and was like oh if you say so and he was like oh do you believe me and I was like idk ad then he was like me and you should try it out to see if I'm fast or not I was just like no you can go do that and just tell me if your fast or not and he was like oh I thought you were more outgoing and I was like well now you see that I'm not and he was like yea you're scared so I was like only when it benefits me and he was like oh so with me it doesn't benefit you I see and I was just like no that's not what I wanted to say because I didn't wanna be ****ed up. Should I text him I miss texting with him or should I wait for him to do so ? Edited June 22, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator What a mess, I can't edit this so it makes sense. please use proper form when posting
InsaneTrombone Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 What should i do he hasnt texted me since he implied we should have sex this was basically our conversation idk of im imagining things or did he really impled that we should have sex. first he was like ima take a shower ill text you when I'm done and I was like ok then he texted me saying I'm done and I was like oh ok and he was like I'm fast but I'm not fast at everything so I was think like what does he mean and then I figured out and was like oh if you say so and he was like oh do you believe me and I was like idk ad then he was like me and you should try it out to see if I'm fast or not I was just like no you can go do that and just tell me if your fast or not and he was like oh I thought you were more outgoing and I was like well now you see that I'm not and he was like yea you're scared so I was like only when it benefits me and he was like oh so with me it doesn't benefit you I see and I was just like no that's not what I wanted to say because I didn't wanna be ****ed up. Should I text him i miss texting with him or should I wait for him to do so ? Sorry, had to do it..that was painful to read. Yes he's implying a sexual relationship. 2
Author Kimxoxo Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 I know sorry I didn't feel like rewriting the whole conversation but I had sent a text to my friend so I just used that and forgot to erase all those lol. But yea that's what I thought to but I miss texting with hi he always cheers me up and he hasn't texted me since tht happened an it's been two day I feel like I should text him but I'm not sure
Author Kimxoxo Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 I'm 17 but I don't know how old he is. He is really sweet and asked me out but after this conversation I got kinda creeped out.
ses Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 You do sound quite young. Don't feel pressured to have sex with the guy. He's in it for the goodies, and you sound very naive and easily impressionable. Having sex with him won't make him like you or desire an actual relationship. Cut off contact and find someone who actually respects you.
Author Kimxoxo Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 I wasn't planing on haveing sex with him but I just miss talking with him because he is so funny an cheers me up lol
ses Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I wasn't planing on haveing sex with him but I just miss talking with him because he is so funny an cheers me up lol I understand, but he has an ulterior motive with you. There are plenty of guys who would be more than willing to act like a gentleman and treat you with dignity. He may act like your friend, but he's not.
Author Kimxoxo Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 I know he probably does have a reason for doing all that but I don't even like him like that so I don't know why I'm worried I just want to keep it as friends with him even though he had already asked me out on a date before.
ses Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I know he probably does have a reason for doing all that but I don't even like him like that so I don't know why I'm worried I just want to keep it as friends with him even though he had already asked me out on a date before. Don't even try it. He may think he can change your mind by accepting an offer of friendship. He doesn't see you as a friend, and will pursue you if given the opportunity. Just let him go and move on from this situation. You'll feel better in the long run and will have avoided a lot of drama.
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