lynngv Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 It has been 2 monthes my boyfriend Todd and I started dating.It has been going great and he is always good to me.Yes,we are taking it slow and getting to know each other.Todd admits I am the one,admits that I am a great listener.Our communication skills are great and work on improving it.I am always reminded I am strong by him when I am a little down and he never puts me down at all.Although he is 4 years younger than me,I still love him for what he has done for me.Todd and I admit we are doing a great job not rushing it.Rushing things is a huge no to us.Todd knows I can't stand snakes,I told him this.People not cleaning up after themselves is one of my pet peeves and this is his too.I am glad he is in my life now,a future husband and step father.My kids even like him and get along with him.
ForeverHopeful1 Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I am glad things are going well, but I do have to say that after 2 MONTHS, you arent taking things slowly if you are already saying I love you, and have introduced your children to him. I would also wait until after a year to start talking about marriage and being "the one" because EVERYONE is nice after 2 months. It is not about whether he is nice after 2 months. He has to prove that he is still the same nice guy years into the relationship. Everyone can behave well for a few months. Just be wary please. This could go poorly in a New York minute and you sound like you would be blindsided. Just be careful, especially when you have already introduced your children. You are SPEEDING through things, not taking things slowly. Just to clarify. Good luck! I hope Todd stays amazing!!!
Author lynngv Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 We are being very careful.Todd comes from a family that was raised well.His father taught him to treat a woman right very well
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