My ex loved me two days ago until he broke up today.

[LostSoul9]

I'm quite young for relationships as everyone says but I found a special someone and it was all over in a month, it was all my fault. We met through Facebook, we were friends from there and he kept teasing me about everything then asked when we're going to meet, I told him I don't know yet. After a few weeks he asked the same and I told him I was available next Saturday.

 

A few days before the meeting he sent me a text message confessing his love to me but doesn't want to risk losing another friendship, then he admitted that the meeting on Saturday was a date. The day finally came and we met, it was awkward at first since it was the very first time I met him but I could really tell that he was into me, I even gave away my first kiss.

 

 

After that we got in a relationship and things were so happy, all that time he had no laptop so we kept texting eachother, him texting me quite often.

He has the greatest personality out there and he is nothing close to an *******. In fact he is a gentleman and made me feel so loved.

 

 

After the date we kept meeting up a few times a week during school and those days were amazing. A few days later he gets his laptop back and since he's a gamer and never really goes out he jumped into his games. Ever since that day he grew distant from me.

 

 

Then his birthday came and invited me to come over his house and meet his family. Just him, his family and I on his birthday, no one else. His family liked me alot. Then as he grew more and more distant I kept complaining about it, how he's not paying attention to me anymore (it was a mistake and I regret complaining).

 

At first he was like "I'm sorry for that, it's just a bad habit. But if you want to break up just tell me even though I don't want to." but a few weeks later the same thing happened, we had a small argument and didn't talk for a day then he asks me if we could talk about what happened. I agreed. He said that he really can't do anything about it and he doesn't want to hurt me anymore so he just broke up with me. I kept insisting that it was a mistake but he wouldn't change his mind. He said it was his fault for everything and that we should break up so I won't get hurt anymore.

 

 

It's been days now and it really hurts me, I know you're going to say things such as "There's more guys out there" but believe me I never cried this much for anyone before.

We were a perfect match, we loved eachother like hell and he proved that a week before the break up.

 

 

So I just want to know:

-Why did he really do this?

-Does he still love me even though he says he doesn't?

-Is there a chance that he might want to come back to me after everything I mentioned here?

 

Please help me.

Edited June 22, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Sunshine87]

How long were you together for and how old are you both?

[shexy]

Are you guys teenagers?

[LostSoul9]

How long were you together for and how old are you both?

 

He's 18 and I'm 17. We were together for a month and I'm shocked it ended so soon.

[LostSoul9]

Are you guys teenagers?

 

Yes. I know I should move on and stuff because I have a long life ahead of me but I still don't think it had to end like this.

[shexy]

At your age, relationships seem really real and intense. AT my age, not so much.

[Sunshine87]

He's 18 and I'm 17. We were together for a month and I'm shocked it ended so soon.

 

I remember being heartbroken at 17 years old. The pain was real. He is clearly not good for you, if he broke up with you only after a month of dating. You might not believe it but it's best it ended now than later.

 

What you need to do is focus on getting over him. If you go no contact I.e don't contact him, don't look at any of his social media pages eg Facebook and twitter and dont respond to any of his messages, you will be over him within two weeks.

 

So don't prolong the pain. Focus on getting over him.

 

You will meet many other boys. You have a long way to go