arthus1 Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I'm on this online dating site called POF and I met a girl on there, shes my same age (20) and lives in my same city and we get along well so far. We've been talking but how much should I limit my emails? Will I seem like a creep or clingy if I email her too much?
melodicintention Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 Dating in any form is kinda like tennis. You serve the ball, then you wait for them to hit it back into your court. If they don't hit it back, don't go serving a bunch of balls to them, wait for them to choose to hit it back. If they don't, then they don't want to play. Women on dating sites get overwhelmed with messages especially on POF. Yes you can scare a women off by sending to many messages. It can be very difficult to manage a dating profile when you have a lot of messages and only so much time in the day to reply. Be patient and if a woman is interested she will get back with you, if she doesn't then there's no reason to waste your time messaging someone over and over who isn't interested in responding.
Ripnet Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 You should be asking for a date within a few emails. Don't email her too much if you would like to date her than ask her out. Don't like it go on for weeks or months. There is a lot of time wasters on there.
Author arthus1 Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 I mean I always wait for her to reply back, I don't just spam her with messages, but it was suggested to me that I wait a few days before replying.
shexy Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 There are no rules, do what you feel. If you like her, ask her out.
Author arthus1 Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 The majority has spoken, we get along really good on email, conversation is easy to start with her, she is VERY interested in me and has complimented me, and she's HOT HOT HOT country girl. :love::love::love::love::love:
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